Community > Coffee Houses, Bars & Chit Chat

Topic: Hmm!?
NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 06:45 PM
I wonder what is on the mind of those Minglers who periodically view my profile without any attempt to make a contact. Are they trying to get an attention and make me ask them what brings them back? Did you have such an experience? Does it feel like stalking? It does to me. can anyone get a fish without using a hook on first lol yup , that happened to me previously :)) So it works? WOW! Well... congrats!!!

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 06:53 PM
at . least they're leaving you messages.. .all they ever leave me, Are little brown bags on fire....so annoying Put a photo of recycle bins. Perhaps they shall use them and stop leaving those brown bags? I do not get even that. No messages. Nothing. Oh well...

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Mon 10/13/14 06:54 PM
at . least they're leaving you messages.. .all they ever leave me, Are little brown bags on fire....so annoying Put a photo of recycle bins. Perhaps they shall use them and stop leaving those brown bags? I do not get even that. No messages. Nothing. Oh well...

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 07:03 PM Edited by NoMindGamesPlease on Mon 10/13/14 07:04 PM
Maybe I should post a new topic and call it A SECRET ADMIRER? Anyone who secretly peeks at the profile of someone they like, but doesn't dare to admit it could come and leave an anonymous message. Dress code required. No underwear - no participation on that topic. Would that help?

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48973	Mon 10/13/14 07:07 PM
Maybe I should post a new topic and call it A SECRET ADMIRER? Anyone who secretly peeks at the profile of someone they like, but doesn't dare to admit it could come and leave an anonymous message. Dress code required. No underwear - no participation on that topic. Would that help? What is this thing you Humans call "underwear"?

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 07:09 PM
Maybe I should post a new topic and call it A SECRET ADMIRER? Anyone who secretly peeks at the profile of someone they like, but doesn't dare to admit it could come and leave an anonymous message. Dress code required. No underwear - no participation on that topic. Would that help? What is this thing you Humans call "underwear"? Underwear refers to what you wear down under and by that we do not mean in Australia.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48973	Mon 10/13/14 07:15 PM
Maybe I should post a new topic and call it A SECRET ADMIRER? Anyone who secretly peeks at the profile of someone they like, but doesn't dare to admit it could come and leave an anonymous message. Dress code required. No underwear - no participation on that topic. Would that help? What is this thing you Humans call "underwear"? Underwear refers to what you wear down under and by that we do not mean in Australia. So, are you saying that people in Australia don't wear underwear?

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 07:19 PM
Maybe I should post a new topic and call it A SECRET ADMIRER? Anyone who secretly peeks at the profile of someone they like, but doesn't dare to admit it could come and leave an anonymous message. Dress code required. No underwear - no participation on that topic. Would that help? What is this thing you Humans call "underwear"? Underwear refers to what you wear down under and by that we do not mean in Australia. So, are you saying that people in Australia don't wear underwear? I have heard those rumors too. Perhaps I should check out Aussie's profiles on Mingle in a fact finding mission?

NoMindGamesPlease Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 461	Mon 10/13/14 07:32 PM
After a short consideration I have come to a conclusion that this no underwear online encounters of a third kind do not happen exclusively among an Aussie-Minglers, but all over our beautiful planet. In conclusion, filters shall remain up and running, while this owner of the profile on Mingle shuts down the browser to get some sleep. Good night Minglers and thanks for helping me figure this out!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 10/13/14 07:34 PM
Sometimes I miss and view some folks own twice,then sometimes I darn right MEANT to check out their pic again if they're "hot",but about 3 times the most,that's it!

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Mon 10/13/14 07:34 PM
Rarely, have I ever received email on M2.

falantino Joined Tue 09/02/14 Posts: 323	Mon 10/13/14 07:48 PM Edited by falantino on Mon 10/13/14 07:56 PM
I wonder what is on the mind of those Minglers who periodically view my profile without any attempt to make a contact. Are they trying to get an attention and make me ask them what brings them back? Did you have such an experience? Does it feel like stalking? It does to me. can anyone get a fish without using a hook on first lol yup , that happened to me previously :)) So it works? WOW! Well... congrats!!! it don't work permanently , first it gave me a love with a fake person but then it gave me a real and great friends , so beware of some mind games :)) it still too early to Congratulates but ty NoMindGamesPlease :)

Redbutterfly098 Joined Tue 08/19/14 Posts: 2761	Mon 10/13/14 07:51 PM
Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities. Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile. I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB okey! rate it... Rate it? OK! I am not a gardener, but I love flowers. Anyone else can help with this rating? Come on Minglers, do not be shy now! W ill i forgot to look on you profile I will gonna check it also...

luking4frens Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 56	Mon 10/13/14 08:12 PM
I do click on someone's profile out of curiosity to know the person behind an interesting post? Hope that is OK because there are some awesome people on the forums that I may have unintentionally "stalked" because there are so many and I need a reminder as to who the person is, as indicated in his or her profile, at times. Maybe I should start sending messages to those nice people when I sneak a peek at their profiles. To those people I have looked at but not contacted - know that you guys and gals are great!!! Sometimes it is clicking on the person who last remarked on a post rather than the topic itself? Darn trigger finger! Sincere apologies for that. To the fake profiles I have encountered much too often - you guys went into the trash!!!

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 10/13/14 08:15 PM
I wonder what is on the mind of those Minglers who periodically view my profile without any attempt to make a contact. Are they trying to get an attention and make me ask them what brings them back? Did you have such an experience? Does it feel like stalking? It does to me. Ummmm, yeah, I'm speaking for two here.....we have been wondering the mentality of this very issue as well.... maybe that is the case, but to me that's the equivalent on leaning on the bar all night and perving on all the guys girlfriends when there is tons of single chicks for the taking....and we know where that gets you.....nowhere!! Yes....we both have a couple of...well what do you call them....both of us have one or two that in cycles view us every single day, and other times up to three a week.... It is damn creepy....and it is unsettling.....well it certainly gives us an insight into those persons.... Yes it is a form of stalking.....how could it not be?

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 10/13/14 08:16 PM
What's the big figgen deal who looks at your profile, are they hurting you? It's a public site and you can't control who looks at you profile. Dammit! Now I have to go look myself now

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 10/13/14 08:21 PM
sometimes my finger slips and i accidentally ...view peoples profiles that's my story and i'm sticking to it lol Yeah...it is hard on the mobile, I often clip the button beside the one I intend to....so you 3 or 4 peeps that saw I checked you out in the last 4 days....sorry no offense, it was an accident Oh and (((babe))) you know I check yours out all the time...

Jinshim_GW Joined Sun 10/05/14 Posts: 630	Mon 10/13/14 08:23 PM
I sometimes forget who I've already looked it and if I've viewed your profile more than once, I apologize.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 10/13/14 08:24 PM Edited by Awatersign on Mon 10/13/14 08:27 PM
I wonder what is on the mind of those Minglers who periodically view my profile without any attempt to make a contact. Are they trying to get an attention and make me ask them what brings them back? Did you have such an experience? Does it feel like stalking? It does to me. Ummmm, yeah, I'm speaking for two here.....we have been wondering the mentality of this very issue as well.... maybe that is the case, but to me that's the equivalent on leaning on the bar all night and perving on all the guys girlfriends when there is tons of single chicks for the taking....and we know where that gets you.....nowhere!! Yes....we both have a couple of...well what do you call them....both of us have one or two that in cycles view us every single day, and other times up to three a week.... It is damn creepy....and it is unsettling.....well it certainly gives us an insight into those persons.... Yes it is a form of stalking.....how could it not be? To that degree which you just describe,I would agree,but I wouldn't call it that if you only do it about 2-3times though,sometimes I even forget something's or miss somethings in some peoples profiles,and the go check it again,so lol I don't think we're ALL stokers or stoking lol!

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 10/13/14 08:26 PM
What's the big figgen deal who looks at your profile, are they hurting you? It's a public site and you can't control who looks at you profile. Dammit! Now I have to go look myself now Yeah, I understand this as well, there is an openness about here that has to expected, and it does have a weirdly humorous side....laughing about it helps...