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Topic: Sex before marriage???
valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Mon 09/29/14 03:03 PM
yeah, we could debate this till the cows come home, but my thought is that it would be; nice, special, romantic to have something that only you and your spouse share with each other. That's the best kind. Candlelight dinner, glass of wine, a slow dance in the middle of the room while The Platters - "Twilight Time" is playing. A kiss. and another longer...and thats how it slowly goes. No hurry... you do what you both feel is right.

valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Mon 09/29/14 03:03 PM Edited by valtheponytail35 on Mon 09/29/14 03:04 PM


anote Joined Mon 12/09/13 Posts: 1715	Mon 09/29/14 03:05 PM
Sex before marriage is a good question and topic but since the dawn of man the better question is how to do handle the situation after, was it just sex for you or your partner or was there a deeper connection? I think sex before marriage is almost a given (not an absolute) so what comes next is what I feel is really important. You hit the nail on the head

El_Mexicano Joined Sun 05/22/11 Posts: 17	Tue 09/30/14 07:53 AM
I agree with you,before, during and after. Then the question comes up, was it all sex or is a commitment sex? :-)

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Tue 09/30/14 07:59 AM
Oh boy! Perhaps you are all overthinking this...

candy2088 Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 42	Tue 09/30/14 08:02 AM
it depends

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 09/30/14 08:02 AM
Is it ok if you get partner, who have shared intimacy with someone else, Is that affects current relation? Since sex is a personal choice and a private matter between the two "adults" partaking/participating, other than a need to relate a health concern, what difference could it possible make?...

green407 Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 1563	Tue 09/30/14 04:52 PM
it depends Sorry, but would you please elaborate.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 09/30/14 06:32 PM
OOok. .can we just have the sex!!! annd not the marriage part..

x91714319 Joined Sun 09/28/14 Posts: 1	Wed 10/01/14 02:38 AM
Yes I think u r right

xerxes1980 Joined Wed 10/01/14 Posts: 1	Wed 10/01/14 03:03 AM
Y yes yes yes

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 10/01/14 05:54 AM
Hmmm... I wouldn't buy a car!! unless I test drive it....

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 10/01/14 06:22 AM
39 year old virgin looking for 40+yr old virgin for marriage ,MUST be sexually experienced ,Oh wait,no experience needed,ummm,wait wait,..F%#k

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Wed 10/01/14 06:34 AM
As I stated in another post, sexual compatibility is an important issue I think. If you wait until after marriage you won't know if your difference in sexual tastes will cause difficulties in your relationship. I believe if you talk to marriage counselors you would find that sexual incompatibility is a big cause of divorce.

abybaby85 Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 4	Wed 10/01/14 06:40 AM
Peoples are there bro.. If someone follows real Christianity then they will not go for ugly matters.. they will be a one men women. .

abybaby85 Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 4	Wed 10/01/14 06:45 AM
Yes agreed that those are the private matters between adults but you couldn't say that those private matters will not affect to your future happiest life.. can you? ?

abybaby85 Joined Sat 05/31/14 Posts: 4	Wed 10/01/14 06:52 AM
Dear Awatar, I have a question.. If that car is tested by someone else already before you purchase ? How you are going to identify? if you identify after the purchase what you are going to do?

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 10/01/14 07:00 AM
If you ARE a Christian,then,no sex before marriage ,if you're not then it doesn't matter unless its a personal thing ,or maybe some other religion ECT!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 10/01/14 07:11 AM Edited by Awatersign on Wed 10/01/14 07:15 AM
Dear Awatar, I have a question.. If that car is tested by someone else already before you purchase ? How you are going to identify? if you identify after the purchase what you are going to do? Lol first of all I think that question should be for no1 lol,but the answer is simple,you test it,you like it,you keep it,you don't like it,then chances are you're not going to keep it,depending on the ratio between that the rest of the person,example,you may not like it,but the person has other good qualities that outweighs it!

Idnotno Joined Thu 10/03/13 Posts: 2	Wed 10/01/14 09:36 AM
im not looking for a virgin but i dont want a prostitute either if you have more then 10 sex partners your not for me i know a few girls single and looking but one had 6 different men and the other had 10 i could just go sleep whit a hooker and be just as safe as with these girls.