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Topic: why can't I seem to find love here?
Unknow Joined Tue 01/21/14 Posts: 4	Sat 09/27/14 02:28 AM
Is age, distance and race really a problem? Please I need answers, because depression is a bad thing and might just lead to the uncertain!!!

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 09/27/14 02:33 AM
Sorry man the problem you face is your country of origin....you might be a real and nice bloke but so many scammers come from there it has people scared off... good luck man

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Sat 09/27/14 02:35 AM
'Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.' - Rumi

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 09/27/14 02:36 AM
Crap man, now you go all deep.

Unknow Joined Tue 01/21/14 Posts: 4	Sat 09/27/14 02:49 AM
I just wish I can fix all that has happened in the past!

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Sat 09/27/14 03:08 AM
focus only on the present and what steps you can take to expand your efforts to meet others.each day set goals to meet others and work toward their attainment and leave your emotions and pessimism aside as they only inhibit your goal attainment

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 09/27/14 03:27 AM
Stating negative emotions will definitely stop you getting any mail

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Sat 09/27/14 03:28 AM
Love yourself first... The rest will follow...

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sat 09/27/14 03:42 AM
I cant believe I'm here again

Unknow Joined Tue 01/21/14 Posts: 4	Sat 09/27/14 04:27 AM
Only Mikey, seems to get what I'm saying... If there should be one person in the world I love is "Me" all I'm saying is I want to find love here...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48948	Sat 09/27/14 05:16 AM
Is age, distance and race really a problem? o the uncertain!!! Women typically want to meet men who are of their own generation and who live on the same continent.

valtheponytail35 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 264	Sat 09/27/14 01:58 PM
Well dude you do have problems. As long as you continue to be from Nigeria, youll never find what you search for. This is how we see Nigerians As far as I'm concerned you're one of them. The reason that makes me think so is because my e-mail spam folder still receives occasional spam mail from nigeria. It does not say Nigeria but when I copy-paste part of it's contents to the google, it's always a scam and it's always from Nigeria. Don't even get me started on scam mail that I received when I looked for a job online last year. You may not be a scammer, hell if I know. But safety of me and my personal info comes first. And SAFETY COMES FIRST for all the women. Way before personal happiness. You are NOT a SAFE choice. But there is another thing that speaks for your honesty and that's when you started this thread. "Please cause I'm from africa doen't mean I can't get such, I'm a responsible gentleman, yes I know alot have happened in the past, ladies encounter wit people from my race! Please can I meet someone here, because I'm tired, I wanna start life afresh with that special someone, in some country overseas! Thank You!" Nice and straightforward, you are looking for a woman to marry so that you can get out of Nigeria. Scammers would be way more subtle about their intentions. But you might want to know that for a western woman it is very insulting to be simply used to legalize an immigrant from the 3rd world. You don't fck around marriage here if you want to be taken seriously. Ever.

Criollo99 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 1676	Sat 09/27/14 02:01 PM
Read here http://mingle2.com/topic/408083 maybe that will help?

Astrid Joined Tue 03/25/14 Posts: 7748	Sat 09/27/14 02:20 PM
Well dude you do have problems. As long as you continue to be from Nigeria, youll never find what you search for. This is how we see Nigeriansi As far as I'm concerned you're one of them. The reason that makes me think so is because my e-mail spam folder still receives occasional spam mail from nigeria. It does not say Nigeria but when I copy-paste part of it's contents to the google, it's always a scam and it's always from Nigeria. Don't even get me started on scam mail that I received when I looked for a job online last year. You may not be a scammer, hell if I know. But safety of me and my personal info comes first. And SAFETY COMES FIRST for all the women. Way before personal happiness. You are NOT a SAFE choice. But there is another thing that speaks for your honesty and that's when you started this thread. "Please cause I'm from africa doen't mean I can't get such, I'm a responsible gentleman, yes I know alot have happened in the past, ladies encounter wit people from my race! Please can I meet someone here, because I'm tired, I wanna start life afresh with that special someone, in some country overseas! Thank You!" Nice and straightforward, you are looking for a woman to marry so that you can get out of Nigeria. Scammers would be way more subtle about their intentions. But you might want to know that for a western woman it is very insulting to be simply used to legalize an immigrant from the 3rd world. You don't fck around marriage here if you want to be taken seriously. Ever Spoiler! But very well said Val.