As I encountered many beauties some exceptional also,, but my heart says no,,, I can't go along so I missed, despite friends advice I would never get another chance of such,,, It doesn't mean inferiority complexes,,,

Youre honoring your spirit... Tis all good...

Your friends are wrong!

Are you saying that you had a shot at getting a gorgeous chick, you didnt take that chance and now you regret it?

As a human it's obvious some point of time of being alone you think of compromising to self and live as it comes with all terms and condition ,,,, but how long any one cheat with itself,,, and it will be cheating n betrayal with someone too,,,,

As a human it's obvious some point of time of being alone you think of compromising to self and live as it comes with all terms and condition ,,,, but how long any one cheat with itself,,, and it will be cheating n betrayal with someone too,,,,

Hmmm.. are you Op.. talking about lowering your standards..?..
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C'mere D...Imma kick your azz...

If you are an exceptionally good man then your standard is an exceptionally good woman. No arguement there.

If you are an ordinary man who wants an exceptionally good woman then it's not a standard, it's a delusion.

He said that he has "encountered", not "had a shot at".

Ah so he saw a pretty woman, didn't do anything, waited till she was out of sight unaware, that she just made some dude, who's peeking from afar, question about his high standards.

I used to live in resort town with nice long white sand beach, full of bikinis and ppl who wore them at summer. If i'd seriously think of every time I saw a lovely face, boobs or bums (best when combo) as an "encounter"... oh man. That's just sad.

I can relate to what you're talking about,I would say it's the main reason why I'm single now,if your heart ain't there why waste your time and others,I'll admit,sometimes if you give it a chance sometimes it may work out though,I think with the whole "standard"thing ,we're usually looking for that near perfect or perfect one for us ,and therefore,we find it unacceptable to comprise in the least way,this is one the reason you would see so many wonderful"looking"people here, and would wonder why are they here!!

op if this is your experience then I understand but if you have not given the women a chance... then you may be missing out on a nice relationship ... but i do know what you mean after talking to someone you thought wow... they have every thing you might be looking for in someone and find they don't is rather disappointing ...