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Ok so I started chattin with a really sweet fella on here awhile back & I really enjoyed chattn & tryin to get to know him. Then he started pressuring me to meet up. Told him straight out ..I am not ready.I just want to be friends for awhile. Then he started blowing up my phone with all his problems & how lonely he was & that he needs me..
 Then I get texts like why am I still on sites like this seeing I have him?? I considered meeting him as a friend but he got overbearing way to fast. I had to block him here ,then he hit my fb account with nasty messages & how cold I was. I dont get it..I didnt lead him on. All my profiles say I just want friendships for now. Anyone I talk to I let them know it.I feel like the bad guy here because he was going through some hard times. 
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dawn don't sweat it one bit. if you are making it plain that slow and friends first is what you are doing. then it was his malfunction not yours
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Don't let any make their "hard times" your problem.
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dawn don't sweat it one bit. if you are making it plain that slow and friends first is what you are doing. then it was his malfunction not yours
Yeah Eric, I know right! I do feel a little bad about it but I'm kinda bewildered....since when does chatting & texting with someone mean its a relationship. He literally asked me if I was dumpimg him. I never even met him so how can it be a dump?? lol |
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Don't let any make their "hard times" your problem. Thats exactly what he seemed to be doing Rock! I think I was an outlet for his stress & loneliness....he even accused me of being the reason for his failure on quitting smoking this past week! I just blocked him everywhere before I really showed him how cold I can be! 
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it's not your fault if someone else is an overbearing clinging obsessive control freak.....you did the right thing, and just in time too....
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Ok..i'll stop already lol
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it's not your fault if someone else is an overbearing clinging obsessive control freak.....you did the right thing, and just in time too.... You are correct Argo! Glad I didn't go meet him lol |
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Ok..i'll stop already lol
I sure can attract them!! 
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Yeah these sites are either hit or miss. sorry that it didn't work out for you though.
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on other hand, this is dating site, if you looking for friends, just go to summer camp
my thought 
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on other hand, this is dating site, if you looking for friends, just go to summer camp my thought
true..but I found some awesome friends here..jump into the forum girl..ull gather a lot of friends..
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on other hand, this is dating site, if you looking for friends, just go to summer camp my thought
If this site was just for dating they wouldn't have Friendship as one of the "You are interested in..." options. |
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Ok so I started chattin with a really sweet fella on here awhile back & I really enjoyed chattn & tryin to get to know him. Then he started pressuring me to meet up. Told him straight out ..I am not ready.I just want to be friends for awhile. Then he started blowing up my phone with all his problems & how lonely he was & that he needs me.. Then I get texts like why am I still on sites like this seeing I have him?? I considered meeting him as a friend but he got overbearing way to fast. I had to block him here ,then he hit my fb account with nasty messages & how cold I was. I dont get it..I didnt lead him on. All my profiles say I just want friendships for now. Anyone I talk to I let them know it.I feel like the bad guy here because he was going through some hard times.
sounds like you did the right thing to me : ) keep your head up not all us guys are insain there are a lot of great people on this sight best wishes on your hunt |
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