When a girl's profile contains this message, does it mean she has quit the site for good and I shouldn't bother msg'ing her, or that she receives copies of the messages to her other e-mail anyway and therefore has no need to login, or at least not until smth interesting enough pops up?

It means what it says......dont waste ur time

on a poster,, it means someone or someone has gone missing

on a website profile, it means that someone has had a life outside of an internet website for a straight month,,,

It means the member has not logged on to the site in over a month. Draw your own conclusions. Thread over./

Damn. All the profiles of Manchunian girls that I liked, carry this message. I guess I'll have to get my *** out of the door again and do more gigs and pubs. Last time in Hard Rock Cafe I seemed to be only guy who showed up alone. But it would be really nice to find someone before Xmas, so I guess out I go again.

I'm confused, OP...I checked your profile and it says you're a man looking for a woman.


As such, why would you notice that you're the only man in a pub who showed up alone other than to say,


"Yeahhhhhh...first - and ONLY! - dibs on all the WOMEN who showed up alone! AWESOME!!!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnVXIUyshng

ok ..op.. I have noticed this too...
. and it always seems to follow right after... I see a bunch of shining bright lights hovering in the sky...
.. and then shortly after that... poof members disappear... I'm so glad you noticed this too.. I thought I was going crazy... now between you and me... and I'm going to whisper this really softly.... you don't suppose they are being abducted by aliens do you...
..shhhh... I know I thought it was crazy too at first..... hang on a minute I see some bright lights outside of my house...ohhhhh.noooooooo...

When I go off for a month; its because my life gets hectic and I simply have no time to come one here. Maybe they met someone; maybe a family emergency, traveling, etc. There are many reasons people don't come on here for a month.