I guess that makes me a girl, because since high school I just wanted to find one girl that makes me happy that i would spend the rest of my life with. And no amount of money could ever be enough to cause me to cheat.

Just being with someone I love is all the happiness in the world I need. Id rather live a normal life in love than a luxurious one at the cost of loyalty. But I guess im just weird.

I don't believe so; I believe most normal, healthy, well-adjusted men (and women) feel similarly.

The only thing that comes close to being "weird" (i.e., 'not what the majority do') is perhaps your ability to be cognizant of it and your willingness to use your outloud voice when expressing it.


I hope you find what you're looking for.

I've no problem, admitting that I'm shallow.

traditionally, in the western culture

I believe women were seen as attractive based upon their physical qualities

and men were seen as attractive based upon their physical capabilities

with the introduction and growth of media, however, I do believe its a toss up on which one is more shallow (concerning looks' as now both men and women are objectified merely by appearance,,,

boobs n stuff

Those that say "looks aren't everything" really shouldn't be taken seriously. Similar to someone believing the proper spelling and pronunciation of "supposedly" is "supposably."

Other than that it's like arguing which is more important to driving.
The ability to manipulate controls, or the ability to see?
With the people that want 10 and 2 to be the law of the land calling those that don't want to let blind people drive as "shallow."


But....I didn't find them physically attractive?
Never. That's a game of ego and solipsism at best.


Sure.
Steve Martin got the girl in the end.
After he played a crap load of games on her and kept lying, manipulating her perceptions and emotions.
And after the cute guy just disappeared (with another woman) because he couldn't live up to her expectations.

I don't understand your point for bringing up that movie unless it's no matter what you do people are going to act on what they fear to be true rather than try to directly determine what is true.

Is that pic from a horror film?Don't get me wrong,she is really beautiful,but she looks like a vampire or something like that lol

who's more Jewish, Barbra Streisand or Dustin Hoffman??

Yes he got the girl that's the point.. I love that freakin movie!! I'm just sayin that some woman would of taken one look at him and said no way right then with out giving him a chance... Cuz I know the younger me would of not even thought about getting to know a girl that looked like that. .. sounds mean but I'm just keep in it real... but luckily life experiences and and meeting some really cool down to earth people have helped me not to be so shallow....

dunno

he's still kinda sexy

And I just asked the question just to get a kick out of the responses of both men and women. It don't have to be ov er analyzed r anything... I was like ten the first time I seen it.... and even I was like whaaaa?? that's a big *** nose.. there's no way she'd ever be interested. .. Cuz my favorite part was when he was n the bar and the called him big nose and they threw darts and he had to come up with the 20 put downs... hell I was interested n him then... that was smooth... but I think both men and women have become less shallow over time cuz of women like Roxanne. .. Cuz like someone said on here earlier to each their own... Every one has different things r parts they're attracted to.... I just like the battle of the sexes... its fun and funny I don't care who u are... just like this dancing banana

ok first off!!!.. i did not get out of hand with" her"...quite the opposite...
...and yes i made it quite clear from the get go..i was looking for friends first...and if you have not been active for a very long time!!!!..it is easy to succumb to passion....so if you're done busting my...billy bob's...lol can you offer advice how i let her down...

Wow.. dude that's a tough one.... Cuz you'll come off like a prick either way I guess so it's like. ..... ROCK.....u......HARD PLACE.... lol... just tell her u were drunk and don't know what's she's talkin about.... lol... j/k that would be aweful man... just run Forrest run!!!!!!

I think men are the shallower sex but they are just wired differently.They are more visual and are attracted to the boobies or the legs or butts and pretty faces.I have 2 sons and one is the family man and one is only attracted to the lookers and has had some giant fails because he seems to be amagnet for the psycho beauties. So if you are only attracted to looks you will prob end up alone and unhappy one day but thats your choice. Lets just accept that we are all different and none of us are perfect.

It pains me to say it, but women are more shallow...Marketing has been making that fact clear for decades...Everything frivolous, superficial, or trivial is geared toward women...When it comes to sex appeal (feckability), the men win hands down, everything else goes to the women...One thing advertisers and marketers understand...Men make the money, women spend it....

That was fro FunnyJ

Too funny. U have been abused.

About 5cm of vag and the rest is warm guts

For a guy, if you don't have your tricks you may fall 'victim' to PE

Men, of course lol