So, I'm single and looking. Kind of obvious.
However, I don't know where to even start looking, that's why I'm on this site, and even that is barely working. How can I start/find a relationship with someone? I don't know anyone around here except for the people I work with and my family. I just recently moved here and I have not been able to get around the community. There is nothing to do and I am not in school for the moment, so my social window is very difficult.
Someone help?

dont drink the tap water : )

oh wait that isn't what you ment

look in local forums area

jump in to forums and have a look see around
and give the lady's a chance to see where your head is at

fast relations norm end just as fast

You seem to follow me everywhere, huh?

Relax. Join a club that has women. Don't be afraid to talk. Go to the park in uniform and scope out the prospects. Be friendly and see what happens.

Join the Mingle2 forums.

..hmm.. pull out your local phone book... get yourself a roll of quarters..
.. go to local phone booth... begin !! randomly.. phoning..people out of the phone book.. ask them if they would be interested, in going out with you.. I am sure within.. 5412 calls..
.. you will find a date... but in the meantime... it will give you something to do.. and any passer buyers... will think you are a.. busy guy.. making you even more appealing...jk..good luck...

nope not following you : )
just trying to help

Sir, be urself, SIR. Unless ur really annoying, SIR. Then b someone else, SIR! And stop with the paranoia that people r following u, SIR. We all post many times on many threads, SIR. It's common, SIR!

Get involve in forums, SIR! Then read this thread, SIR!

http://mingle2.com/topic/408083

Wait...what..?ur family is also here n mingle?

When I was traveling I used a variety of websites to meet people, with or without similar interests. It worked out very well for me and I highly advise it, but I don't know your interests so... you know, just utilize the tools at your disposal.

Finding people with similar interests is always going to be the best advice. Conventional dating is really hit or miss and a bit of a meat market but if you've got a reason to meet up and it's not a pressure situation with expectations you have a better chance of getting to know them and getting them to come round to your way of thinking.

Crack up Ph1

Go out & live buddy! It's not even my best advise but try it for yourself. Best of luck :)

If that's a military uniform in your main pic....
Consider going off base to meet women.

I don't live on base.

How exactly, then, are you having a problem meeting women?
Military uniform = chick magnet

as long as he doesn't act like a drunk sailor on leave

that never worked for me

Yeah, because what woman wouldn't want a man with a dangerous job where he's likely to be killed and he's hardly ever going to be home?

I'm not active. I'm National Guard.

Just a thought...Uniform dating??

Just had another thought buddy and this has only worked for me once btw...but only tried it once to!

Turn up at a busy bar or club and hang around a bit, maybe do a bit of scouting from the background and find a group of girls. Watch for a while and then approach and say to one of them that you are feeling a bit of a muppett because your date didn't show up and maybe they will ask you to join them as they are in a group and don't feel threatened. Once you have spoken to a couple/few of them you will soon find out which one of them fancies you as they will talk about it and agree upon it between themselves given a bit of time...