For 8 months I have been looking here on Mingle 2 and I can't begin to count the number of profiles I have read and how many winks and such I have sent out yet nothing. The only 3 or 4 people who have responded to my profile or messages have been mentally unbalanced, Needy, Clingy and so insecure it's frightening. What will it take? Arrrrggggg!!!! Are there any women out there who are serious about finding someone with out the expectations of marriage or living together?? Is there a woman out there who wants a partner but does not expect to live together or get married???