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Topic: What does a man think if a woman initiates contact?
TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 08/18/14 07:49 AM
Well, if they live near enough for dating what I think is that it's probably somebody that isn't going to waste my time and never make a date, so it's cool.

horseracer Joined Thu 09/07/06 Posts: 584	Mon 08/18/14 08:13 AM
I like it,and I think they have that privilege if they want to get to know someone. I do not believe that they are desperate if they do that. just shows confidence. after all we're not in the 60s

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 08/18/14 09:01 AM
wow it's about time. a woman noticed ,all the work I put into keeping myself fit. and looking good. .. if she can step up and appreciate that.. then she's going to appreciate and notice everything ! else I do for her...

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 08/18/14 09:44 AM
"Initiates contact"...Hmmm? Is that the same as throwing the first punch?

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 08/18/14 10:50 AM
I don't mind when a woman messages first. Usually though, it's just a scammer.

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Mon 08/18/14 01:12 PM Edited by rambill79 on Mon 08/18/14 01:13 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? I would think... Im gonna get laid!. lol. hmmm actually I would have no problems with it until she stalked me like Rose on "men". Actually that would be ok too if she looked like Rose.... hmmmm

red6mist Joined Sat 08/31/13 Posts: 948	Mon 08/18/14 02:18 PM
She's just looking for someone to talk to. That's what I think anyway.

rayolla Joined Thu 08/14/14 Posts: 1	Mon 08/18/14 02:26 PM
Please ask them. Anybody can start a conversation, depends on what kind of conversation though. However, babies are not allowed in the dating site, I guess.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 08/18/14 02:53 PM
I talk to strangers constantly, online and in real life. Like almost everyone I enjoy attention and I dig it when people strike up a random conversation, male or female. There's nothing desperate about wanting to create a dialogue with someone new. Agreed. Well put.

plastic_pancakes Joined Sun 10/18/09 Posts: 7399	Mon 08/18/14 02:54 PM
I talk to strangers constantly, online and in real life. Like almost everyone I enjoy attention and I dig it when people strike up a random conversation, male or female. There's nothing desperate about wanting to create a dialogue with someone new.

Moyex Joined Thu 07/31/14 Posts: 1	Mon 08/18/14 03:04 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? . That's in very rare cases. Like 2 outta 10 women.

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Mon 08/18/14 03:19 PM
Its all good...they are searching profiles and see one they like how else they gonna get an introduction. You gotta grab the attention of the one you like.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21825	Mon 08/18/14 03:56 PM
It all depends on what you mean by "initiating first contact". If she smiles and says hi, I'm a bit intrigued. If she grabs my junk in the checkout line at the store, I may be just a bit taken aback.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 08/18/14 09:44 PM
Why would a female taking initiative be a bad thing? I agre, but it took a long time to leave behind, ideas from the past where we were raised being told that a girl who goes after the guy is desperate or easy. Thank you to everyone for sharing your thoughts. It's definitely encouraging to some of us that are still learning on here.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 08/18/14 09:48 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? depends,some woman are soooo up front,talking about sex on the first MSG,but if its you ANA,well you can send me smext text talk pics any time NASCAR, I like the new pic but miss your other one absolutely ill send you some Mex-text lol.

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 08/18/14 09:58 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? depends,some woman are soooo up front,talking about sex on the first MSG,but if its you ANA,well you can send me smext text talk pics any time NASCAR, I like the new pic but miss your other one absolutely ill send you some Mex-text lol. there you go again being bad ill take that MEX_TEXY any time,oooh can you bring me a few steak soft tacos too? yummm

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 08/18/14 10:17 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? depends,some woman are soooo up front,talking about sex on the first MSG,but if its you ANA,well you can send me smext text talk pics any time NASCAR, I like the new pic but miss your other one absolutely ill send you some Mex-text lol. there you go again being bad ill take that MEX_TEXY any time,oooh can you bring me a few steak soft tacos too? yummm who me? I'll even remember the Dr pepper

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Mon 08/18/14 10:24 PM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative? depends,some woman are soooo up front,talking about sex on the first MSG,but if its you ANA,well you can send me smext text talk pics any time NASCAR, I like the new pic but miss your other one absolutely ill send you some Mex-text lol. there you go again being bad ill take that MEX_TEXY any time,oooh can you bring me a few steak soft tacos too? yummm AAAAW your to good to me ANA who me? I'll even remember the Dr pepper

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Mon 08/18/14 10:51 PM
it tells me, here is a confident woman who knows what she wants and is not afraid to reach out and go for it....although expected from men, an admirable quality for either sex nonetheless...