why do i keep getting messages from men who only want fun, they see my profile and i don't know how they get to this but they automatically think she looks like she is up for a laugh. they seem like they are actually interested in having a conversation and then they start slipping in sexual references. when i don't respond to them ( because im hoping they actually are nice, they make some lame excuse why they cant talk anymore. im sorry to rant but i just want to know ( ARE THERE ANY GENUINE MEN WHO DONT JUST WANT ONE THING AND DO WANT A RELATIONSHIP AND DONT THINK SINGLE MOM =EASY. men complain about women but they should try being one for a day on here then they would see how soul destroying it feels to be ditched in mid conversation because your not flirting enough. wow i needed to rant that lol but seriously :(

It's ok.. You need a way to let it out . Sorry your going threw that silly bs. Keep your head up ^_^

:)

sure good luck

Hi ya,
We women get that a lot. There are good men out there too but I find that they are too far away. Pity as I would love to meet them, just for an hour even, face to face, for the heck of it.

I've learnt not to let it get to me as it is a reflection of them, not me. I know it is annoying when there has been some conversions etc and then it's just sex talk

Men tend to be honest about their sexual needs, forgetting that we want romance first. Delete the players.

Stay on here and you may be surprised by the male personalities on here.

when it comes to the birds and the bee's ''men pursue and women flirt''---men and women are not only

physically different we are emotionally different we have different chemicals produced in our bodes to

cause us behave and act differently---then you add the varying degree's we are wounded by our

caregivers and others as small children---behavior boils down to two basic things---validating beliefs

we formed when we were to young to really understand and the favorite feelings and emotions that we

now have--and thats about it---the biggest problem is for us is to ''see our part'' in the issues we have

with others---most focus on the surface noise---like ''who did what to whom''--instead of for

example

''not believing you deserve to be happy'' thats called a core issue because it controls how you interact

with everyone--

most of what i see is past timing and surface noise not real intimacy its really sad to see so many lives

wasted and in so much pain---

Some men, as I have experienced, have only so much small talk they can tolerate before they get to the sexual innuendos. It's not about you, it's about them and their inability to engage in any meaningful conversation. If it's any consolation, this experience is not specific to single moms, although they are a target for sure. It is also not age specific and it is also not gender specific. It's a chance you take being on a sight like this and it is incumbent upon you to educate yourself and choose wisely to not be taken in by someone of the opposite sex on sights like these. Best you can do is report them and block them if they make unsolicited sexual comments which you do not appreciate. Best wishes.

if someone say's "i just want fun" that is being genuine,isn't it

...or looking only for an intimate encounter, putting it nicely (if that's possible) LOL

we all have hidden agendas--only 6% of conversation are the words the rest is body language only the

pathological liars and professional liars like politicians and sales people are able fool us---so the answer

is ITS POSSIBLE COULD BE THE TRUTH---I NEVER BEIEVE TEXT--ITS NOT THE PERSON LOOKING ME IN THE

EYE OR NOT LOOKING ME IN THE EYE--

Maybe YOU might think we ALL HAVE HIDDEN AGENDAS...but don't even begin to read other peoples minds...some people are totally honest about who or what they are looking for in a possible relationship. You most certainly CANNOT state this as applying to everyone!

i just want to be smothered by boobies

i think that's kind of naive, like the way teenagers behave

are you recognizing my greatness klc?

not got the hang of this reply thing yet, no it wasn't you jt

WHEN I MEET A ''POO FREE'' PERSON---

but i don't just want sex, i want a fun person who's not uptight & i do believe there are some women that want the same in a man after all we're not teenagers anymore

EVERYONE IS BORN WITH A NATURAL CHILD IN THEM ITS ''THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PART OF US''---THE

HARD PART IS FIND SOMEONE

WHO WILLING TO RISK THE CHILD BEING HURT--WHAT WE KNOW THE LEAST ABOUT IS OUR OWN

AWARENESS ABOUT OURSELVES ON WHY WE BELIEVE WHAT WE DO AND OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS THAT

WE CARRY AROUND WITH US---A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE TO DRINK BOOZE OR TAKE DRUGS TO TURN

OFF

THE NOISE IN THERE HEADS SO THEY CAN LET OUT THE CHILD IN THEM TO HAVE FUN-- THE LAST TWO

WOMAN I DATED WERE LIKE THAT---''DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL ITS THERE CHOICE'' ITS JUST LIKE THEY

SAY YOU HAVE TO KISS A LOT FROGS--GOOD LUCK--

You keep getting messages from men like that, because you're a woman. Just as men get those kind of messages from women. It's just how the world has turned. Not many people are actually looking for something real, something solid. They are just looking for a good time to please the moment of life.