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Why is it that men want me for nothing but sex. When I was young an this happened 2 times to me. I was kidnaped for 8-12 days. All togeather 42 men bruelty beat me an tied me an my friend to a tree. We were raped 8 times a day. I thought I would die. So this is why I hate sex but no man wants to be with a lady who does not have sex so here I am 60 years old an a loner. Im scard of men. I cant take it anymore. I love men but I hate sex. If a man cant be with me for who I am an what I am then I say thr hell with them. Thank u an have a good day
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Can I show you true companionship without sex
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Why is it that men want me for nothing but sex. When I was young an this happened 2 times to me. I was kidnaped for 8-12 days. All togeather 42 men bruelty beat me an tied me an my friend to a tree. We were raped 8 times a day. I thought I would die. So this is why I hate sex but no man wants to be with a lady who does not have sex so here I am 60 years old an a loner. Im scard of men. I cant take it anymore. I love men but I hate sex. If a man cant be with me for who I am an what I am then I say thr hell with them. Thank u an have a good day [/quote sorry those things happened to you---that was then -this now-all we ever have is the now---staying stuck in the past robs us of the now---i see this everywhere so your not alone---NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THE ONES THAT DID THOSE THINGS TO YOU--- i know logic will not work as long as your stuck in your feelings---grieving and letting go seems impossible with something this terrible---its the only thing that will free you and ease the pain so you can get on with your life--  |
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. Im scard of men...I hate sex
Maybe you should be seeking a therapist as opposed to being on a dating site? |
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. Im scard of men...I hate sex
Maybe you should be seeking a therapist as opposed to being on a dating site? oh good, I'm not the only one thinking this. |
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. Im scard of men...I hate sex
Maybe you should be seeking a therapist as opposed to being on a dating site? well spoken 
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. Im scard of men...I hate sex
Maybe you should be seeking a therapist as opposed to being on a dating site? oh good, I'm not the only one thinking this. i was online this morning when this was posted , i wasn't sure if they where playing around or what so, i said nothing at at all not all guys are bad same can be said for females with that being said .... if this thread is true no one should have gone through what you went through ,you really should get together and talk with some one about it cause no one deserves what you said happened |
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So sad if it's real wht u say :(
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I was never tied down but I was led to believe that I needed to sleep with them for my protection. It was horrible but I wasn't mature enough at the time to understand that I didn't need them at all.
Different scenario, I understand, but in the end.. I can understand in my own way. However, I went opposite of you and ended up making many 'nsa' mistakes for a few years. Stayed clean, thankfully, and have the memory scars to still console myself through. Men are notorious for wanting more and more sex, but then there are women who abuse men.. Honestly, I'm sure there are men out there that would just want a companion to live with or at least hang out with. It just takes an extra long time to find that type of person. I've had a few male friends like that. Keep your head high no matter what, and keep on smiling the best you can. |
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Sounds like u should have gotten therapy to help u with the trauma. Sex is apart of the human make up but there should be guys who just need a shoulder for support but uve got to look n the right place for them. Im sorry u went thru what was done to u and even more sorry that its left u n a state of resentment for a natural desire. Maybe u should get help r more help so at least u dont have feelings of hate within u thats not good for anyone whose been thru trauma my prayers r with u
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Where's opie?
May I suggest you delete your account and mods? Will this thread go with the profile and delete also? Not a place to post this sort of trauma. |
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