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Topic: Infatuation Or Jealousy
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 08/05/14 04:48 PM
And yes it's just COINCIDENTAL that posts just follow other posts just in a different thread...totally coincidence...... I understand your logic.....but we are in different sides of the spectrum on these forums.....i have people who spy here and take it to other sites... I also know what a true stalked is i have one with a 5 year restraining order on him....don't underestimate anyone....you can only control yourself... .... sorry not seeing the me part..!!!... just saying... not looking to start anything up....

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Tue 08/05/14 04:57 PM
Ushenzi ...

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 08/05/14 04:59 PM
Sparks, you already know how I deal with cyber stalkers.

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Tue 08/05/14 05:08 PM
Sparks, you already know how I deal with cyber stalkers. And I Have Always Admired That As Well

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 08/05/14 05:10 PM
there really shouldn't be an expectation of privacy on the INTERNET, ,unless its personal and private messaging,,,

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Tue 08/05/14 05:12 PM
But there is an expectation of decency that should be practiced in real life and on the internet.... Too many people are miserable and they take it out on others...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 08/05/14 05:14 PM
expectation of 'decency'? how long have you been on the internet,,lol yeah, people SHOULD Be decent, that's as far as I can agree with that statement,,,

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Tue 08/05/14 05:15 PM
this bad enough they can stalk u on line... hope they don't live near u sparks ... block and report... if they are making u feel that uncomfortable ... Ive had my name ,number address,phone,# of posts I make,Here Or Elsewhere Posted,,Maybe It Just A Few Admirers...LOL Ya Think???

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Tue 08/05/14 05:16 PM Edited by Tanzy14 on Tue 08/05/14 05:16 PM
expectation of 'decency'? how long have you been on the internet,,lol yeah, people SHOULD Be decent, that's as far as I can agree with that statement,,, So morality goes out the door because you are on the internet ....i guess im a fool to believe in that.....

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 08/05/14 05:19 PM
expectation of 'decency'? how long have you been on the internet,,lol yeah, people SHOULD Be decent, that's as far as I can agree with that statement,,, So morality goes out the door because you are on the internet ....i guess im a fool to believe in that..... there is a time and place for everything,, non violence should be an expectation of humans, but we should maybe EXPECT it less in a bar or drinking party,,, for instance morality never goes out the door, but there are environments where we can be pretty sure to see less of it than others I expect more 'moral' behavior in a church, or amongst elders at a formal event I expect less' moral' behavior where there are crowds of young adolescents drinking,,,or,, on the internet,,,where the anonymity and lack of consequence makes it much easier

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Tue 08/05/14 05:25 PM Edited by Tanzy14 on Tue 08/05/14 05:24 PM
I get what you mean Harmony.....but we are speaking of middle aged adults...whom either have grown children or have young ones....they lose all sense of themselves to demean each other.....that's unacceptable ....i came from a zoo called Dh and this place seems to have the same type of people....i am a fool to believe in morality...morals don't end because you aren't old or in church...

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 08/05/14 05:30 PM
the internet is the perfect place to be exposed to everything unacceptable,,,,

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Tue 08/05/14 05:33 PM
the internet is the perfect place to be exposed to everything unacceptable,,,, Good answer....i see that now.....

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Tue 08/05/14 05:40 PM
there really shouldn't be an expectation of privacy on the INTERNET, ,unless its personal and private messaging,,, yes what is discussed in private. Should stay in private. .. Doesn't always happen .. More reason to screen who you chat with and be cautious with what you share ... that has and always will be my approach on the Internet Very Good Point..... But Still Believe Some Are Very Sly...

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Tue 08/05/14 06:49 PM
i know that now Blondie... i only stated posting in forums about 14Months Ago... its Been A Learning Experiance 4 sure...

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Tue 08/05/14 06:51 PM
there really shouldn't be an expectation of privacy on the INTERNET, ,unless its personal and private messaging,,, yes what is discussed in private. Should stay in private. .. Doesn't always happen .. More reason to screen who you chat with and be cautious with what you share ... that has and always will be my approach on the Internet Very Good Point..... But Still Believe Some Are Very Sly... goes beyond sly ..sparks .. There are so many cases where intimate pics and videos have been posted on google for all the world to see... Trust can never be assumed You got a good point, i shared once, trustingly, and in the end got threatened with exposure. live and learn. lol

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Tue 08/05/14 06:59 PM
I Think Every Woman In This Thread Has Been Thru ,Some Kind of Stalking Its Kinda sad,,For All Of Us

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 08/05/14 08:47 PM Edited by dreamerana on Tue 08/05/14 09:23 PM
I think there are some very narcissistic people who suppose anything posted is about them. when someone's opinion differs from their own, they feel offended and claim to be stalked. there are also those who make themselves appear promiscuous and inviting, then publicly complain that the opposite gender is stalking them. it might be wise to consider how they present themselves. we are all adults commenting on open, public topics. it means there will be variety of opinion because we aren't clones of each other

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 08/05/14 08:50 PM
I think there are some very narcissistic people here yup

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Tue 08/05/14 09:14 PM
i know that now Blondie... i only stated posting in forums about 14Months Ago... its Been A Learning Experiance 4 sure... I'm new to the interwebz too. Just ignore the join date on my profile.