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Topic: education or manner?
smartwithsparks's photo
Mon 08/04/14 07:59 PM
kindness,costs nothing...
more people should grab that freebie:heart:

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/04/14 08:19 PM

kindness,costs nothing...
more people should grab that freebie:heart:


Can I have that and a free meal, too? bigsmile

smartwithsparks's photo
Mon 08/04/14 08:35 PM


kindness,costs nothing...
more people should grab that freebie:heart:


Can I have that and a free meal, too? bigsmile

Chinese Takeout???

makenwallo's photo
Tue 08/05/14 05:58 AM
yeah of course

BlueskyJ's photo
Tue 08/05/14 06:19 AM
Edited by BlueskyJ on Tue 08/05/14 06:20 AM

Is it true that your manner is base on what level you've reached in your education?

not sure what you mean by "your manner"...

but if you mean 'How you treat other people is based on what level
you reach in your education', then I would say that the connection between the two is weak...

How we treat others is more related to all of our personal life experiences, and we tend to be most influenced with the people we've spent the most time with, or those we respect the most...

What's that old saying, "People don't remember all the words we say or all the things we do. They remember how you made them feel."

Swit30's photo
Tue 08/05/14 06:22 AM
It depends on the upbringing and the kind of people you associate with!

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 08/05/14 06:29 AM


Is it true that your manner is base on what level you've reached in your education?

not sure what you mean by "your manner"...

but if you mean 'How you treat other people is based on what level
you reach in your education', then I would say that the connection between the two is weak...

How we treat others is more related to all of our personal life experiences, and we tend to be most influenced with the people we've spent the most time with, or those we respect the most...

What's that old saying, "People don't remember all the words we say or all the things we do. They remember how you made them feel."


I tend to agree with Bluesky on this one. Manners are learned from what is modeled to them from the people they spend most of their time or life with. Education has little to nothing to do with whether you have good manners or not. Some of the most educated people I've met haven't got a clue as to what good manners are, and rudest seems to define them. It does not, however, rule out that fact that people with a lack of education might also have equally bad manners. Conversely, there are educated people and uneducated people who also have very good manners.

no photo
Sat 08/30/14 03:23 PM
I would say it is your upbringing. Manners is taught by parents to their children from an early age.please and thanks, how to behave at the tables, not interrupting when others are speaking. Showing respect to others. Once the base is there others can polish it up

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