Initial attraction is based on looks.
However, there has to be emotion to make a relationship survive.

Im not a guy... but for me there has to be a little bit of attraction. and personality is most important to me. if they have a great personality then if there was a little attraction it becomes more attraction even physically...meaning appearance gets better.

I believe guys wouldn't settle with someone they were not physically attracted to.

Love 4 Sure

As important to a man as a woman.
Human beings have eyes for a reason.
There's a reason why cars have windshields, submarines have periscopes, t.v.'s replaced radios, phones, ipods all now have screens on them.

"Looks" is just the eyes taking in information for your brain to process it.


If you really knew that, then you wouldn't have asked a question that paints all men with the same brush, asking for an absolute answer that can be applied to all men.


This is scary to me.
Inherent in the question is the idea that men measure and control the long term viability of a relationship and weigh importance at different stages all within the time frame of making a decision about "looks."

This simply highlights your own bias as to how you view relationships and men.

Which ultimately makes the man arbitrary to a relationship with you.
All you are really looking for is a guy that will stick around, you will handle the relationship, you have an idea how it will go, should go, better go or he's the a-hole, and how he will behave if he just agrees to stick around for your relationship.

That's why it's scary to me.

Men in general will view relationships differently than you.
At best, with your perspective on relationships as evidenced in the OP, you will attract someone like yourself that will be willing to stick around and offer you the relationship rituals you desire as long as you reciprocate.
IOW he will put up a facade, change like a chameleon, to give you what you want, as long as you do the same, and if you ever don't, or it gets to be too much to maintain, it's just going to end like turning off a light switch.

find that girl that respects you, loves you, and takes care of you?

So many people do not go past a picture. so thats says alot of what they want and a definate red flag. lol

To a man I think it is important to them,sometimes they are so shallow that a scare can turn them off.

Thanks for your vote of confidence. I'm going to get me a 6 ft blow up doll.

looks. signed shallow bill.

Love first.
Give the guys who like you a chance. They may not be as attractive, funny, or perfect, but you do know that they like you. Pick the best one out of the group and go out on a date. If it doesn't work out, you gave it a shot. If it does, you made it happen.

I agree 100% it is the heart and today most people are to lazy to look inside

It's just as important to women as it as to men...

I believe its their personality, their basic nature, and how they take care of their physical presence that makes them beautiful to me.