I'm not sure if this is most of the men on here but for some reason 98% of all the messages I send are never replied to. Does this happen to more of you? What am I doing wrong?

Haha whats that face for?

It happends to me too. I dont understnd why they cant just say they dont want to chat!?!

maybe they don't know what to write back. ur right 2 b frustrated a simple thanks 4 writing would be nice. hang in there.....

Yes it happens to all of us. Maybe not as much as others but from my experience having long hair in todays world changes things. I would have to say as far as the younger generation goes. There not in to long hair. There looking for that Ken dall Sorry bud, the truth is, attraction upon first glance and will always be that way with the younger generation more so then adults.

....Don't give up man!!!!!!

There is nothing wrong with you...

It happens to all of us.

My opinion: Be polite and answer. Does not mean you have to keep writing. I answer all e-mail.

I agree with Teddy, I answer all e-mail (except scammers and trolls and stalkers). It's just common courtesy, really.

I've had pretty good luck with e-mail here (and I think that has more to do with exposure in the forums than anything else), EXCEPT for the locals. If they're Chicago/Illinois/Indiana area, they never respond, so I just don't bother with them anymore.

Almost everybody else has been very receptive, though....

I agree with Teddy, I answer all e-mail (except scammers and trolls and stalkers). It's just common courtesy, really.

I've had pretty good luck with e-mail here (and I think that has more to do with exposure in the forums than anything else), EXCEPT for the locals. If they're Chicago/Illinois/Indiana area, they never respond, so I just don't bother with them anymore.

Almost everybody else has been very receptive, though....

sorry guys,

u just hav to take a hint ...for those guys with no photo's thats ur problem ..most girls/ guys want to see who thier talking to .. so take that into consideration.. good luck u guys!!!

I agree, the blue boxes...hard to respond to someone that is a blue box...ppl don't like being shocked!!

As for you emails, no idea what you are writing in there...so can't tell what you are doing wrong or if you are. Maybe they just arent interested?

I agree with teddy too but in reality people being on the internet and at his age. What do you think his age groop is looking for? think about it, what were you doing at 18?

Thanks all. Ya, I get questioned about my long hair often, a lot in public. Its fine though, I like it. but I do think most of the people go for the "bald" look. Haha what am I doing? I'm not sure. I tried meeting people at the club, thats not really my scene. I like to go once every now and again but its a bit to loud. I send a lot of messages out, and get maybe 1 out of 10 back. If that. Well thanks for all the reply.
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Im not really sure if it has to do with just your hair. My son has longish hair....I call it the frodo look...he would love to have your hair though Around here, longish hair is in.........are you really 6 ft 8?

I get alot of copliments on my long hair..... young older, they all seem to like it

I wish the longer hair looked wasn't frowned up, especially dreads. I have lost so many jobs because of my hair. Doesn't matter though. Some people like, others think its disgusting, they think I don't wash my hair, which is a huge lie.
Ya I'm really 6 foot 8, I'm starting college ball this year. The coach thinks I might have a chance for NBA. I'm a tall guy lol.

I rarely get compliment, but it dose happen some times.

Well dread, stick around the forum and you migh be suprise who you might meet. I have long hair and for me I was going through the same thing. what I did notice as I spent time on the forum I started meeting people and making friends. Hate to say this but for those that do not have long hair as some of us men do, will not understand and I don't want to hear this, cut your hair then from anyone! because people that are real and actually care about people . Don't give a SH... what you look like. it's about who you are on the inside and that is all that matters.

No idea, dread. Don't know what you're writing or to whom you send these messages?

Not insinuating anything, jus' sayin',,,

Welcome - "most" of the folks in the forums are decent - hang out here with us for a while. We could use a new perspective

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pssss - watch out for that Gypsy chick....