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Topic: be honest
jester0012009's photo
Thu 06/19/14 07:16 AM
teeth

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Thu 06/19/14 07:18 AM
I like a tall man......nice built and a killer smile....

Riggson's photo
Thu 06/19/14 08:15 AM
Well I like a pretty girl...but I'd have to say the smile and eyes, appearance doesn't really attract me......lol, I know, I'm wierd

MaJayJay29's photo
Thu 06/19/14 10:41 AM

Well I like a pretty girl...but I'd have to say the smile and eyes, appearance doesn't really attract me......lol, I know, I'm wierd

Hardly weird there are a few men/women like that.

Baldhead1VA's photo
Thu 01/15/15 02:55 AM
1st thing I look for? Attitude

What makes me walk away? B/O

Awatersign's photo
Thu 01/15/15 08:11 AM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks
Attitude,positive,attracts,negative,repels,second,sense of humor,attracts ,sarcasm,repels,physically,beautiful smile,and i like my butterfly with a bee @$$ lol,that's what I,look for!!:wink:

Crackadomis's photo
Fri 01/16/15 07:53 AM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks

The second day she saying baby I love you and the buzzer says aaaaiiiiinnnnnnttttt wrong answer

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Fri 01/16/15 08:10 AM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks

A humble man.
What makes me walk away? Gambler...

avamari2's photo
Sat 01/17/15 04:27 PM
I think as we age, these things change. A lot.

I used to seek out the 10s. The really good-looking men. I'd go so far as to approach them, and I think they dug the courage. I spent time with very attractive men, and a lot of them were lacking in the brain department.

Sex was amazing though... not always entirely fulfilling, however.

So, now in my thirties, with a kid, and a career, (and post 13 cumulative years committed to horrible exes), I look for things outside of the physical. Short men are cool. AS LONG AS they don't have any insecurity with it, I won't. But many insecurities are not attractive... not just 'little man syndrome.'

Above all else, he has to have integrity. Toward me, and with himself. Know your shortcomings, and have a plan to address them. Be confident although always remain humble and open to new perspectives/experiences.

You'd be surprised how difficult these qualities are to find. But it's easy to spot when they're lacking. Which is when I walk.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 01/17/15 04:45 PM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks


I'll walk away if she begins to interrupt my football time. I'll take care of the honey-do list after the game sheesh! grumble laugh

tanyaann's photo
Sat 01/17/15 05:12 PM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks


Look for communication.

Walk away for disrespect.

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Sat 01/17/15 05:17 PM

When looking for potential friend/ partner/lover/whatever, what is the first thing you look for? What is the main thing to make you walk away? drinks


well, just off the top of my head I 'd say....a nice smile, but I walk away if he's a player

kthnxbye's photo
Sat 01/17/15 07:12 PM
Physical attraction is first and what makes me walk away is a shallow personality . I have a zero desire to make her feel inferior to me and I will not stick around long at all if I feel I'm being manipulated. Had more than one overconfident woman find that out the hard way . I am a human being , I will treat you like a human being but you will not treat me lesser than one . There are vastly worse things than being alone. Take no guff from the swine. There is a twisted pleasure to walking away from someone that mistreats you , leave them to roll in their own waste , they will.

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Sat 01/17/15 08:11 PM
Hi

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Tue 01/20/15 09:56 AM
HeLlo

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Tue 01/20/15 09:56 AM
HeLlo

mightymoe's photo
Tue 01/20/15 10:13 AM


I am down to just looking to see if she has a car...


(whispering) yeah that's a big deal for me to. Unless he's in a crowded city and using public transportation, still at least have a drivers license.

so you want to love a delivery driver? true love indeed..

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sat 01/24/15 04:58 PM
The first thing I look for is a sense that we are on the same page of existence. That can come from a look in their eyes, or better, how they deal with little things in life.

The most likely things to drive me away, are impatience, and calculation.

I've run across a lot of people since I started looking again, who have obviously worked out a chart of requirements in their minds, sometimes with hostility attached, and are sorting through guys like me as though they are at a yard sale in a neighborhood they don't care for.

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