I feel like it's a varying trait thing. Everyone has different tastes in whoever they find attractive. You're not a racist because you like who you like. I think most people are scared to admit they like a certain type in public, but realistically, we know.

I believe that modern day society is so brainwashed by liberal media that it isn't even funny. If you were really to sit down, think, and try to understand the way people use terms such as racism, closed minded, homophobe, etc, it wouldn't take one long to see that we have double standards in this country. Most people just fall with the crowd, kinda like herding sheep, I mean, they've got you now to where Hollywood can change your whole mindset just by making a movie. People watch TV, they go by here say, nobody really wants to research anything(which history is slowly being rewritten by them as well) or stand up for theirselves. You've got to stand for something...or you'll fall for anything. Words are funny things- it's almost as if it people in my generation jump at the first chance to get offended by something. I suppose I just grew up differently, not saying I'm better or worse, I'm just a man- but don't take that too lightly

Now, I do understand completely that what I'm looking for is very rare. I'm a man of loyalty. Loyalty is my most respected characteristic in a person. It's easier to die for someone than it is to live for them. Many women were endowed hardship during war times throughout World War Two, Korea, and the Vietnam eras...being a prior service military man, I was both lucky and unlucky, for the woman I had committed the rest of my life to was no so mutually faithful. It took me some time to understand that I have not lost anything I never had in the first place. I realized my mistakes in what I'd done, and it has helped me a great deal in understanding the standards I must set if I am ever to find what I am looking for, I generally ask a lot of questions, I'm very inquisitive when it comes to such. I ask them how they feel about homosexuality, abortion, firearms, etc. I seek compatibility in a like mindset and standard. Being a single father is a very important factor but not the only factor in taking a gander at a ladies moral values. For example: I want my son to be raised with my old fashioned moral values, therefore, if I am ever to commit to a lady, one who in my eyes would be the greatest lady in the world, eventually, I would have to allow her to become a part of his life- if our morals are the same, there will be no confusion in my sons mind about what's right and what's wrong, and someday he will grow up, and stand a chance in this old cold hearted world. Once he leaves, I will have nobody but the greatest lady in the world to enjoy the rest of our lives together with. I reckon having a like mindset would guarantee that we'd get along, which would create a much better environment for the both of us, and it would help as far as pursuing our ambitions together. I don't like quitters- how could I find it in myself to have faith in someone who quits every time things get a little bit difficult? It's not the good times but how you get through the hard times that makes you..quitting can never be an option. This is where loyalty and faith come into play. One must have faith. I know I'm old fashioned and likely the last of my kind..but I can't give up. As much as dislike people in general, I'm forced by my ambition to somewhat have a glimmer of faith that perhaps someday, society will wake up, and understand what this "open mindness" is doing to our country, in the meantime, I must also have faith that out there, somewhere, the good lord has blessed me with that greatest lady in the world, and it's up to me to find her. By my discipline and integrity, I continue to push forth my standards, regardless of how society is, I will have what I want, and I refuse to settle for anything less.

Cool story bro.

I know this guy that brought his sons up to be what the liberal media calls racists. You know, calling orientals gooks and telling them to write about how the holocaust didn't happen when they had to write an essay at school and so on. Is that the sort of thing you're talking about?

indeed it is, I guess my idea is that since race was constructed well after Christ died, Christ would not have seen his Fathers creations as different 'kinds' based merely on their ancestry,,,but as all Children of God based upon their faith



imho,,,

is it not racist then to not 'like' black people,, or sexist to not 'like' men or women?

of course everyone has different likes and dislikes, when they are based on nothing but race, they are racist, when they are based on nothing but sex they are sexist, when they are based on nothing but class they are classist

kind of how that works

if one can know that out of billions of people on the earth they have PREKNOWLEDGE That there is no chance they would 'like' any of them,,, that's a bit more than just a varying 'trait'


I don't particularly find shortness in a man attractive, but I have no stern objection that would keep me from dating ANY short man,,,,

because of the LIST of other things I do find attractive that absolutely will overlap with many of those SHORT Men,,,,

Idk...I guess the term "racist" just doesn't really bother me. Words(terms) are funny things....by no means am I a very sensitive person. I just take care of my own. It is what it is? Thats one thing i dont get...why do people jump at the first effort to be offended? it really doesn't take anything these days...one group in particular. i mean, if you were to call me something, that was a term for what i actually am...why would i get offended? i take pride in what i am....and quite honestly, its not a crime. that is the beautiful thing about this great country we live in, we have rights, to rach their own....the problem is, i feel, that a certain liberal political group seems to be taking minorities and enforcing their rights over our own. peoples way of life is at stake all on account of a political agenda, i feel, to destroy our country from the inside out in efforts to crate a one world government, just so one person can control the world. the things these liberals are enforcing(many blindly) are coming from someone higher within their ranks who would like to begin the process by turning this nation, which is still currently a democracy, into a socialist(communist) government. As far as religion, we are all sinners born into a world of sin. There are many different interpretations of "right" and "wrong", there is nothing wrong with being judgmental...everyone does it. Some people do it for a living. One thing I know for sure, and I'll bet you'd agree with me...there is only one true judge, and the True judge, the good lord himself, will judge is all. All a man can really do is what he feels is right, he must put forth an effort not to compromise it, when it's all said and done...well I reckon he'll go to one place or another. Lol. Personally, I feel that common sense would tell people to stick with their own kind, but as I said, to each their own. About the school thing...well that goes both ways. As many people know, there are two sides to every story, I can remember having to write papers on Martin Luther king, and being forced to learn about black history month, when my family actually idolizes Robert E. Lee, and confederate history month, but despite their efforts, their agenda to educate black history month only ever brought resentment towards it, and actually brought on many questions and complaints by taxpayers who were curious as to why we wasn't being taught our own heritage. After many boycotted the public shool systems and began paying their money to private schools within the community, all that finally began to change. You know, In all honesty, if you take a look at this country today, you will come to find that segregation actually still exists, it seems as though different races, on their own free will, naturally prefer to group up within their own communities. It actually takes someone making an effort towards integrating to upset the balance....but someday, I feel, people will eventually begin to understand that Mother Nature always wins. Not everything in our past was a mistake...sometimes things change for the worse. I feel that a person should be aloud to raise their children on their own moral guidelines...is that not democracy? The thing with today's society is that there are double standards everywhere you go. In different regions it may vary to one side or the other, but ultimately, as I said, nature will find a balance. If someone where to want fairness throughout a system....that would be the only way. now back to what I am looking for again, despite the medial, ideal, mindset society(the government) seems to want to instill within the minds of their loyal constituents....I like a lady with a mind of her own, don't get me wrong, I do seek compatibility as far as our beliefs and moral values, and as I said, loyalty is my foremost respected characteristic in any individual. To me, understanding where to place ones faith and loyalty can be extremely challenging in today's society, especially for someone like myself, who deeply cares for the welfare and future of my beloved country. Finding my idea of perfect will take some time, but it's not always the good times, but how you get through the hard times that makes you as an individual, you as a family, and you as a country. Faith in God, discipline, and hard work go a long way in fulfilling ones goals. I'm sure y'all too seek your definition of perfect. It all gives to reason, of course, that our definitions are different, but trying to change one another's isn't going to do anyone any favors as far as finding what makes you happy. You have to be your own man/woman, not a puppet on a string. Don't compromise what's right, and uphold your family name, you've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything!!

IM curious why learning about martin luther king was a problem for those who revered Robert E Lee? more knowledge is a good thing isn't it?


did it somehow wipe out the ability to learn about Lee?

why not 'fight' to get him included in the curriculum instead of fighting AGAINST including King?

It was just something the vast majority of the taxpayers who fund this particular school didn't care for...and by all rights. To each their own, and the fact of the matter was that they were actually trying to educate black history month in place of confederate history month. Which I feel and many would agree, is morally and ethically wrong, it was very obvious that it was nothing more than an attempt to degrade our southern heritage as we knew it. However, in a sense I agree that had they of tried to educate both confederate history and black history, it might not have been such an issue.

So what are some of y'all actually looking for on this site? What is your definition of perfect?

I thought confederate history month was in April, ,did your state originally teach black history in April?

no one is perfect, life is about growing and improving, which wouldn't happen if we reached perfection,,,


Im only here to talk really, to have conversation and discussion on interesting topics,, if its not obvious,,lol

I wouldn't object to crossing paths with someone who was a 'good' and intelligent and somewhat traveled person who was into some of the same types of interests as I am , like music , movies, books, and laughter and family.

Everyone has a preference so you are entitled to yours and that does not make you a racist in any shape or form, however from someone twice your age the only difference in a white woman or say a Asian, Mexican or Black woman is nothing they are all women.I hope your search leads you to a woman who loves you and treats you well. Good luck to you young man.

Thanks sir.....good luck to you too.

actually, a preference isn't an exclusion

I 'prefer' chocolate ice cream, but that doesn't mean that I would NEVER eat vanilla,,, I think the term 'preference' is misapplied in dating

but yeah, people gonna do what people do,,,,and believe what they believe

I believe so....I don't rightly remember...I do however remember it being clearly stated that black history month will be taught in place of confederate history month. I have old documents over at my parents house. They saved all the paperwork, and had me bring home copies of everything having to do with it.
I'm quite disappointed at the turnout as far as Caucasian women seeking Caucasian men I've had on this forum, but I've faith that eventually, they will begin to come out of the woodworks. My message inbox is blowing up, however, there may be other guys like myself on this site, and their posting on this forum could help them out with what they seek as well. I encourage anyone who is seeking something in particular not to be shy....post away!!

That's a fact!!! Your right!!

Bah, I thought that this guy was going to have some interesting conspiracy theories but he didn't even mention how aliens are working with the government to create a race of supermen with psychic powers. Obviously just part of the right wing conspiracy to cover that up.

Lmao. Hey man...nobody's perfect, just as harmony said, therefore, everybody's perfect......to someone. Each of us intuitively seek that special someone who completes us. I'm perfect to someone, and your perfect to someone. I hope you find yours just as I hope to find mine, Good Luck!!