Understanding, communication, sincerity .

....I know a man and i realize that he is not what I need. ....Then I know one another and realize that fits 'like a glove'. Clear that, There is some primordial qualities that I hunt, as well as a lot of defects that we may accommodate easier. I dont know if ''beautiful, smart, home early and wallet full'' are enough. Would be preferable to have a little bit of everything, and if it is aware of the importance it has effective communication in a relationship and we are on the same wavelength, we could revolve around each other for a lifetime, of course, the ups and downs of rigor. shall impose one condition: EACH TO WANT THIS, ... Do not turn me who will always be the center of attention and who would do anything just to gain the attention. I am not a stereotype at this point, no matter what Color has the eyes, or what music he likes or not, and other things related to taste or things that do not depend on that man, but I want three things large and accurate to a man, to be honest, to have a sense of humor and be patient. I have to feel comfortable with him next.

Hii tell me what makes u happy

Having been on dating site's for a few year now, I'm beginning to feel downhearted about the whole thing. I feel like I'm running out of steam. I guess I just need to venture into other places a bit more, and see who's out there. It's not like any guy has a crush on me on here, or any other site, so I guess that leaves me more free to roam. I just don't like trying the same method for too long. Which reminds me, I need to go change my profile headline.

I agree Mariah...have met lots of nice men but they can't stop COMPETING...always having to be right, get the last word, etc.

I met the nicest couple today earlier at a reserve. I know she loves him because he could converse without competing....wanted to snatch him away lol ....such a relief to meet someone like that.


what I want in a man is the ability to be a real friend AND realize that being friends with your lover is NOT the same as friends with your game day buds

a smile like the OP has is nice also :)

Someone who is just there.
This has caught my attention and just makes your heart give a little sigh, when he just says 'i'm here'.
A few times I've been messaging, then texting with him and I tell him good night because I'm feeling sleepy. He knows I get insomnia. So the first time he said if you wake up, I'm here. A week ago, I was out with my best girlfriend. Feeling alone in the crowd as she was otherwise entertained. He said I'll stay awake and talk to you. And he did, poor baby. Last night, I said I can't sleep. And he said, I'm here. Love that. Knowing someone is there for you.

I thought you totally got the part about the walk in closets...I feel so disillusioned

Just met a woman who is ten years older. The best kisser.

Absolutely. It's sickening I tell you :)

Someone who would loves & cherishes me. Someone who doesnt take me for granted and finally, someone who invests his time and energy to make the relationship successful.

To be loved

^^^This.

I've had this. Now I just need to find it in a man who is also single.