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Topic: marriage vows
CowboyGH's photo
Tue 05/13/14 06:21 AM


No..way. would I stay with somebody..
. whose values may have changed.
. who's outlook on life may have changed..
. who's goals and desires may have changed..
who's priorities and ambitions may have changed.
. in a relationship you are always evolving and changing.. not always for the better..hmm..


but you can't expect that your partner will stay the same....if you love that person/ each other, then you deal with changes together


Exactly, people change over time in general. Not a bad thing or specifically a good thing, just happens as you get older. But the whole plan is to get older together eg., growing old, together... changing together in harmony.

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Tue 05/13/14 06:33 AM



No..way. would I stay with somebody..
. whose values may have changed.
. who's outlook on life may have changed..
. who's goals and desires may have changed..
who's priorities and ambitions may have changed.
. in a relationship you are always evolving and changing.. not always for the better..hmm..


but you can't expect that your partner will stay the same....if you love that person/ each other, then you deal with changes together


Exactly, people change over time in general. Not a bad thing or specifically a good thing, just happens as you get older. But the whole plan is to get older together eg., growing old, together... changing together in harmony.


hey therewaving I agree. If people get together on the right basis initially things can work and working through changes can happen as long as both are willing to be understanding and not push the other to the breaking point. On discussions of marriage, I have always held that both have to remain equally committed to staying together....if so, all else is manageable

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 05/13/14 08:53 AM
It's rare to hear either sex do exactly as they say and mean it
except maybe johnny cash and june carter cash

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