You can block him (what I would do)

or let him waste your time while he sets you up to allow him to pull the same breakup stunt again

remember - he can only doormat you if u let him

and he does sound awfully immature for someone in his 40s

I DID ON MY PHONE!!!! YET A G A I N TODAY...HE TEXTED ME FROM SOME OTHER # TO TELL ME SOME THING HE FOUND IN A STORE TO HELP WITH SOME "RENOS" I AM DOING...(knew it was him by the word usage...deleted and ZERO reply...then blocked THAT #!!)

TBH it sounds like you guys moved a little too fast to be considering moving in with him lock, stock & barrel after only 4 mos. He should have again, shown more maturity.

so next time (with hopefully a different guy) go a little slower

that's just my $.02. Good Luck with w/e you decide.
(AS FAR AS THE "FAST" THING.....WE BOTH SAID IN THE BEGINNING THAT THIS WAS A MARRIAGE AND LONG TERM THING SEARCH...IT WAS H I M THAT STARTED TO QUESTION AS TO WHEN I COULD FEASIBLY TRANSPORT MY HORSES, MY HOUSE PETS AND BE HIS "FOREVER WOMAN"---HIS WORDS---)

that's all