i never thought you were sitting around the house, however
you are allowing her and yourself to be confused and to not have to decide. She can communicate with you and leave that door open just in case she either one decides she does not want this other guy or he decides for her and does not want her.

why would anyone want to be 2nd best?

Wake up buddy. You don't want to be her #2 guy. The guy she goes to when all else fails. Think of it as being a back up quarterback. Don't be a bench warmer, when other teams are looking for a starter.

In the end love is all were waiting for so stick it out, you never know she my come to you after all!

thank you simple man god someone can see the trees thru the forest

keep moving bro,there gos dem dam games......

Definitly move on. If she does this once she'll do it again. Sorry, it's her loss

she wants the cake n eat it 2 she knows ur there.

Dear Strong Miltary Man...


(((((((<<<<<<<Drew>>>>>>>)))))))


I am very honored that you value my opinion...

You asked me this evening if I would read
your new thread and give you some feedback...

Absolutely....

I did read it & I think that you are so awesome,
& deserve the very best in life &
the very best a lady has to offer...

Cause you have the best to give a lady...
Do not just settle for anyone...Take your time...

That's what I tell my twins...
my youngest Daughter and my awesome Son who are 31,

I'm sure that there are a lot of lovely ladies out there,
who are single & have been waiting for a fine man like you...

There are plenty of other women whose lives are not so complicated...Those who do not have all that extra drama
going on in their lives....

You endured so much overseas
in the war...
There was more drama than many people's lifetimes put together.

You don't need someone else's serious drama in your life...

I just think you need to take some deep breaths, and just like everyone else said....
just move on... You deserve way more than being someone's number two guy...That's nonsense and insane....No...no...no
no, you deserve way better than being someone's back up man,
in case her ex and she don't make it...That's total BS...

I know that we all get lonely at times,
but like my wise Mother always says...

"It is better to be alone than in poor company" ...truly

It doesn't sound to me like this lady you are speaking of, has a clue as to how fine and capable you are.
She doesn't value you or realize how incredibly fine you are, if she is considering going back to her ex...

Life goes forward, it doesn't go back...

I can understand that if she has children with him,
how it could be difficult for her
to decide what is right for her to do,

but I believe that there is someone else so much more compatible for you, who doesn't have all those problems.....

Give yourself and your friendships the magical element of time
and take it a little bit slower
& Someone very fine will come along......

Someone custom crafted for ONLY YOU...

Love and hugs Drew...Little Big BRO....
Take care God Bless You...

Please stay here for a while, and I'm sure that
You will find a lot of people who love you here...


DREW

I know you are probably tired of hearing everyones thoughts on this one....you will be the one there for her when they have a fight, the one she talks to, runs to, but when it all comes down to who she will stay with .......it will be him. Until your ready to move on you will stay there for her, talking to her, and waiting, then one day you will get tired of it, and move on.

its only when ur ready 2 leave

Hope you don't get hurt while waiting...
Goodluck!

I sure wouldnt sit by and wait...move on!!
Good luck to ya

Get in the that man & cruse 4 another....

I would hope that you would move on. I would never want to feel second best to anyone else. It's so sad, but TRUE!!!

Call her bluff and tell her YOU arent gonna wait around, if she goes anyway, u really havent lost much!

Hey, Drew ,

Sounds to me like she's wanting to keep you around just in case "Mr.Wonderful" decides to take a powder again. Forget her. I don't know much about you, but I do know that you deserve better than that.

Move on and find someone else who is willing to settle down with ya bro. Good luck!

It's difficult when you have so much in common,but seem like she is still HUNG UP on the EX, I would move on... You found her, you'll find someone else.

it is difficult when you have a lot in common, hoever only after talking for a week???