Well I did not have a break up but my husband passed two years ago. When you care so much about someone and it ends for whatever reason , it just takes time. Confusion sets in and you have to know yourself before you move on to someone else. It is the only fair thing for both parties

What abt this-Should i think about her or i forget her??

Well that depends on how the break up went. I strongly feel that if it is going to happen somehow it will. It might do you good to not thing about her and then whenevents happen that remind you of her . You will know your true feeling. You will either miss her or feel good about yje break up. Give your mind a break . Everyone deserves that

Whenever i tried to come back her,she went away and away,and now i m thinking tht she is not for me.

I would go with your gut

You want people to talk, but you provide nothing on your profile,

Which tells me that A. you're not interested in people knowing you, or B. that you want people to work at even getting the most basic info...such as marital status, children, job, or even at least one interest.

Going by your profile, here are the talking points you created.

Comments on your height,
Comments on your picture.


Maybe, just maybe, if you want more of a conversation, provide a little more info.

I can hold a conversation with just about anyone, but honestly when I see a profile like yours, I assume, 1. Lazy, or 2. Sneaky (especially, on the marital status of 'no answer') and I wouldn't bother looking again.

I am a widow. My husband died of cancer in my arm. I do not like to talk about it. It was very recent. I dont give a lot of info because people look at me like I am a wounded puppy at the point they find that out. I weight. 135. Which is none of your business I have one daughter. I have my own business. And from your post you assume you can judge people and say ugly things without thought. At which point I would not talk to you either. Thx

Not sure what was taking as 'ugly' but frankly I don't care either.

Nor did I ask for your weight, so that wasn't in response to my supposed rudeness, or possibly a jab at me, because i'm a bigger guy, but as I said I don't care, I'm 6'3 and 285 which is technically considered obese, but i'm fine with it.

I wasn't asking for details, the site has built in questions so people can get a general idea of 'who you are' all I was trying to state, that if you wanted a more of a conversation perhaps have a few more talking points, not sure what was rude about that, but people are overly sensitive to direct honesty I suppose I should have sugar-coated it, so as not to damage your ego, not going to happen.

You don't know me. And there is really no reason for us to continue a conversation

oh and I thought a conversation was what you wanted but I agree