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Topic: Do young women respect themselves anymore?
Jamee3 Joined Sat 04/12/14 Posts: 48	Sun 04/13/14 01:43 PM
Do young women have respect for themselves anymore? I believe young women have lost respect for their prized possession. The more your on the market, the less value the product has (metaphorically speaking). Men think they can get away with it which is a terrible oversight. But I'm interested in what people think, do others share this view. Il talk more if there are responses.

MrE89UK Joined Fri 03/28/14 Posts: 260	Sun 04/13/14 01:47 PM
Do young women have respect for themselves anymore? I believe young women have lost respect for their prized possession. The more your on the market, the less value the product has (metaphorically speaking). Men think they can get away with it which is a terrible oversight. But I'm interested in what people think, do others share this view. Il talk more if there are responses. A lot of it is cultural programming to be honest. The television certainly does not help. I think a lot of young women are just lost in life and learning just like the rest of us. I have compassion for the way they behave now and just feel they know no better poor dears.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 04/13/14 01:47 PM
i'm wondering how you come to this conclusion.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 04/13/14 01:48 PM
It depends who you meet.

Jamee3 Joined Sat 04/12/14 Posts: 48	Sun 04/13/14 01:50 PM
I wonder from my beliefs when I just give up hope of a respectable nice looking girl. But it's not who I am deep down, so I can be weak sometimes. Weakness is understandable. Just thought il throw it in there.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sun 04/13/14 01:51 PM
Do young women have respect for themselves anymore? I believe young women have lost respect for their prized possession. The more your on the market, the less value the product has (metaphorically speaking). Men think they can get away with it which is a terrible oversight. But I'm interested in what people think, do others share this view. Il talk more if there are responses. Oh right, but it's ok for you stand in a picture with your friends holding bottles of drink. Suggest you practice what you preach.

Jamee3 Joined Sat 04/12/14 Posts: 48	Sun 04/13/14 01:52 PM
I'm come to this conclusion because the amount of girls that want drink and one night stands are unbelievable. I agree with this social programming thing though. Most will rather be Rihanna or Miley than the queen that lays in them

MrE89UK Joined Fri 03/28/14 Posts: 260	Sun 04/13/14 01:53 PM
I wonder from my beliefs when I just give up hope of a respectable nice looking girl. But it's not who I am deep down, so I can be weak sometimes. Weakness is understandable. Just thought il throw it in there. You just said it yourself... beliefs... and beliefs create your reality . If the belief(s) no longer serve why are you still holding on to them. Obviously you feel they are serving to buy into this statement of what you just made regarding young women. I totally understand where you are coming from though man. It's the story of my life lol. Mega issues growing up in regards to this and still working through things.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Sun 04/13/14 01:53 PM
Women have evolved to have their own brains and be independent. If we choose to behave or talk a certain way then that's our perrogative. We don't answer to anyone but God.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 04/13/14 01:54 PM
I wonder from my beliefs when I just give up hope of a respectable nice looking girl. But it's not who I am deep down, so I can be weak sometimes. Weakness is understandable. Just thought il throw it in there. not sure you are getting your point across. take a deep breath and just let it out.

Jamee3 Joined Sat 04/12/14 Posts: 48	Sun 04/13/14 01:55 PM
Drinking with my friends? Nothing wrong with that. And every1 can be weak at some points, that's not the point, my point is a lot of girls prefer one night stands from my perspective.

Jesusprincessmt Joined Fri 06/21/13 Posts: 11882	Sun 04/13/14 01:55 PM
Do young women have respect for themselves anymore? I believe young women have lost respect for their prized possession. The more your on the market, the less value the product has (metaphorically speaking). Men think they can get away with it which is a terrible oversight. But I'm interested in what people think, do others share this view. Il talk more if there are responses. Oh right, but it's ok for you stand in a picture with your friends holding bottles of drink. Suggest you practice what you preach. This I agree with! Seems a little hypocritical to me.

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sun 04/13/14 01:55 PM
I'm come to this conclusion because the amount of girls that want drink and one night stands are unbelievable. I've come to the conclusion that you are very immature.

Rjacque Joined Sat 03/29/14 Posts: 3	Sun 04/13/14 01:56 PM
society in general have fail the youth .we as adult are exposing the young ones to all these destructive behaviour

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 04/13/14 01:57 PM
Drinking with my friends? Nothing wrong with that. And every1 can be weak at some points, that's not the point, my point is a lot of girls prefer one night stands from my perspective. and a lot don't...did you get hurt recently?

MrE89UK Joined Fri 03/28/14 Posts: 260	Sun 04/13/14 01:58 PM
Drinking with my friends? Nothing wrong with that. And every1 can be weak at some points, that's not the point, my point is a lot of girls prefer one night stands from my perspective. That's the point... from your perspective. I'm not saying it's wrong or not true because it is your truth based on your perspective. You can stop feeding this belief so it isn't so prominent within your life and then and just choose what you prefer. You know this isn't the case that all girls are like this just a lot that you have seen because of your beliefs.

Mississippigal2003 Joined Thu 01/16/14 Posts: 1739	Sun 04/13/14 02:00 PM
I'll stand next to a keg while holding a bottle of tequila. Say something. I dare ya. Lol

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sun 04/13/14 02:02 PM
society in general have fail the youth .we as adult are exposing the young ones to all these destructive behaviour My friend I'm sorry but I really don't agree. Certainly not in my Country anyway. Young people have a lot going for them today, if they want it.

Jamee3 Joined Sat 04/12/14 Posts: 48	Sun 04/13/14 02:02 PM
I'm not saying every girl is not respectable, definitely not but I'm from London and lived in west end for four years so a lot of views have been shaped by that. A girl has the right to do what they want I'm not gonna judge its a choice people make. Does sex have more to it than pleasure? Would a girl tell a man how many guys they've slept with?

MrE89UK Joined Fri 03/28/14 Posts: 260	Sun 04/13/14 02:04 PM
I'm not saying every girl is not respectable, definitely not but I'm from London and lived in west end for four years so a lot of views have been shaped by that. A girl has the right to do what they want I'm not gonna judge its a choice people make. Does sex have more to it than pleasure? Would a girl tell a man how many guys they've slept with? Basically it all exists but what do you prefer. Just choose a girl you prefer and forget about the ones you don't. It's all good to be aware of the ones you don't prefer but constantly focussing on them in such a way will only make you see them a lot more often than you would prefer. If you're looking for the right girl just know the right one will come along when the time is right.