TRUE....

But I won't look as stupid. If I am shopping no one knows that I just don't have any money (I just might not be able to find what I am looking for)

Going to a club without dancing, I am not sure that I could do that. Which is why I don't go.

If it was me and i had time away from my kids...i would prob read a book and sleep....i cantt do that when they are around...

Lay around. Watch something by yourself on tv. Take a looooong bubble bath. Play on the pc. Go out and treat yourself to a banana split. Move your bedroom around. Do something for yourself.
Married friends can leave home once in awhile too? Ask a friend to come to a movie or watch one at home with you.
Share a bottle of wine and sliced apples with some cheese with a friend. Even if they have to bring their "ahem" significant other along.
Whatever you do...take advantage of the "me" time.
Kat

I will definately be taking advantage of the 'me' time.

Kat


I can't dance either. Not into clubs at all.
I just work and stay home for the most part lately. I like it when I get the opportunity to be at home and do whatever I want. Maybe someday that will happen!

That's all my life is lately

Go to work, go home, go to work, go home...

I am in a social rut, and can't seem to get out of it.

I socialised with a few people last night. It was in a pub that I used to go to and it was as if I never left. The people were the same for the most part and there was nothing new. Sad thing is that it's been a year and a half since I went there on a semi regular basis.
I don't miss it at all. I'll stay home instead.

Absolutely kidatheart, I would rather be at home most of the time myself.
Just gets lonely sometimes.

I do too.

Everyone can dance!

Do what your heart desires! My son is with his Dad on Sunday and Monday nights. Sometimes I head out, sometimes I veg on the couch or hang with my friends here.

You will find something fun to do. Don't stress on it, because the little one will be back before you know it and you will be missing them after about 2 hours!

Hugs, M

I say do whatever feels good call up a old friend go out it dosent have to be to a club or bar it could just be out to eat or like you said a movie. Just relax and take the day for yourself because tomorrow its back to buisness as usual. just relax. your companion and life partner will come during that time anyway when your not looking.

go out with friends--- relax and have a great time

you should schedule time...once every two weeks or something like that
it is not only good for you, but good for your children

Have a whole lot of fun!!!

Those times are so few and far apart to have to ourselves when the kid's are young... Seems till forever when they go out on their own. Enjoy the time...

If you cannot find friends to go out with, do something that you cannot or will not do with your child.

Like take yourself out to a nice restaurant, movie, theatre, park, gym, go for a walk, rent a few movies and buy your favourite drink/food......run around the house naked~~!!! lol

Even if you go to walmart..stop somewhere else maybe like a Starbucks or one of those coffee places ..if you don't like clubs even an applebees lol. Relax awhile there if you get bored go home and do somethin for yourself that ya don't normally do.

Who knows I could have you over for lunch keep you over for dinner and desert, just possibly finish with a midnight snack if you could survive that long.