please can someone inlighten me? We say we are here looking for someone real bt someone wil put a fake pic.why look for a real thing if u r not being real ureself? Then when u chat using skype or exchange pictures (real ones) u get a shock of ur life.hes used his pic from ten years ago or used someone else's

some people do not want to be found. some people do not want people they know to find them on here. they do not want to be considered pathetic, desperate etc. while the ones who use fake pics are people that obviously have issues with their self esteem and the way they look.

Skype with someone totally the opposite from their profile pic. When confronted, it's usually their self-esteem issues.

;) I still have him as a friend.

in my opnion if anyone is scared tht someone wil found out and mock u,its just an excuse.i know for someone to find u here they must have registered and login as a member and once they do tht it means they r also looking for wht u r looking for or worse sex.u join here not to order in food or movies.so who is to judge.im here to take all risk to find happiness so what the next person say abt it wont affect me cause only me knows what i want.stop feeling ashamed that u joined a dating site!

dating sites will forever be the lowest form of meeting someone, always, this is a fact of life and not a opinion. its not an excuse its a reality. sure, there are success stories and such but mention it to anyone and you will get judge on it instantly, much like tattoos. you are right, they have nothing to fear except ridicule.

so are u telling me u will chat with a person,make a connection and say u feel comfortable or even tell a person secret things abt ureself and stil hide your face?when we chat our conversations r private so who wil c ure pic there?what more is this guy hidding?

Putting fake pictures in their profile?amm i think more of these people are having low self esteem,. They think that if they put their real pictures, they will be ignored or they wont be entertained by someone they like to chat with,. Not thinking that if they use other pictures, they will never meet someone real who will love them whoever they are, no matter how they look..

The best thing to do, to make sure that he is using his own picture,., ask him to chat cam2cam..

that's a good question , when you participate in a dating website you more likely do that to DATE someone , and if you plan to do so what is the point in uploading fake picture ?

thank you!

people should be upfront and forthright from the start...i believe some people on here don't really want, or expect, to meet someone in real life so they don't mind lying or exaggerating.

me? i don't use a picture at all (but I put an HONEST description in my profile)...

Why love is blind? Must you see his or her picture , Skype or video cam after that what?.. You become lover? No right. How many people by seeing picture, Skype video cam become loves get merry and live happily for ever? Hel..lo wakeup. What are you? …police/ broker? God, be real you guys. Don’t cheat yourself ok. You want to know how she or he look like .You are angry because you can’t find your dream/soul mate! You feel you been cheated. yes of cause you do. you know why? you put a high expectation that’s why. And please don’t say no. Let say he or she not good looking, do you think you want to chat with them. I bet you will never call them again. Do you think this is right .Please think.

chat with her or with him first at less for a month what wrong with that ? pls tell me I would like to know is there anything wrong with that? everyone have their own reason why they don’t want to put their picture. Pls this is their decision. You choose the wrong one you get the wrong one. Your fault. That why you get angry. Everyone want the best at last didn’t get you get angry . kakakakak.

Ok i want to confess , I have put some one picture before, she is not pretty just k for me but I doesn’t know how about others, different eyes different look. But I still get respond from few friends. But after a day I took it off. Do you know why, because this is not me. I didn’t put picture it doesn’t mean I want to cheat anyone. But to know whether this side is not a spam. Due to one person requested/advice I put my own picture now. Even to me they wanted to Skype or video cam. I didn’t give them. i have go thru once in my life it a nightmare .Enough! I only Skype or video cam with the person I trust. This happen in my life how about others.

There are a lot of risk by exposing your picture, you profile, there is negative and positive its depend how it’s work in our life. You taking risk that why you are in this web side. So why are you complaining? So please don’t condemn or judge anyone you are brave not everyone brave like you. By contact thru Skype or video cam etc it doesn’t mean you going to meet someone special right away, or the honest person in the world. Risk people risk , life is risk it up to you how you spin your life wheel.

Last but not lease, If I have offend anyone of you thousand apologies friends no heart feeling please.

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One must be comfortable with there inner self , before being comfortable with someones outer self

you got me there

Seems to me the jig would be up the moment you meet?!