ok i've been on this site for a couple of months now. i'm a very good looking woman and i haven't met a real person on here yet. i don't want to sex text or talk to someone thousands of miles away. if your real and i can drive a reasonable distance and match me in the looks department, hit me up please. so tired of fakers

I'm too far away. Shucks!

its not just about looks. but would you date someone that didn't match you as much as possible? i love people and getting to know everyone but i'm not gonna date everyone. understand?

.. well first thing. you need to stop laying down... and I'm pretty ..real... at least that's what milo. tells me... don't give up.. that lucky fellow... who looks as pretty as you do.... might not have walked out of the woods yet... so to speak... I have pages and pages and pages and pages........... of women who have viewed me... and I still haven't found.. that one... what.'s that Milo.... oh ....yeah.... that is as pretty as me.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Let's be real here ok? Snapping at klc shows ugliness from the inside no matter what you think you look like outside. Personality can make a person ugly or beautiful no matter how they view themselves.

You profile is confusing as well. I think the men are confused by it because you don't want a serious relationship, you like to have fun, you hate being serious, no booty call or sexting and your tag line says *Looking to have fun, maybe more*.

I am sure someone out there will appreciate the person you are but it's not like waving a magic wand and poof there he is!

Kind of narcissistic if you ask me

.. what happened. 1 minute I was fighting you know who... and now I'm here.. did somebody wave a magic wand by any chance..lol

whatever, i've been here for 7 years and never heard of ya...

ya'll make me look at myself in a different light but i know how i am and what i want. i was married to a very abusive man for a lot of years and i just can't take that kind of pain anymore. to me being serious isn't a plus but a minus in the dating pool. if you've been there you'd understand

I don't find the way you address physical appearance at all intriguing so I won't bother to render my opinion on your beauty or lack thereof. I will say that who you are as a person influences how my brain allows my eye to see your face.

I believe a person that concerned about a partner's appearance is more worried about what others think of them because of their partner's appearance.

A fact you may not be considering:

while you sit here with us and bemoan a lack of a relationship, millions of "ugly" women are having the time of their life, loving and being loved.....some of them by very handsome men...

Another thing to bear in mind: maybe you should take the initiative and contact men whose appearances are to your liking and live in your area (the SEARCH criteria allows this) instead of waiting around touting how pretty you believe yourself to be (not saying you aren't, not saying you are).

I reckon the man beating you was your match in the looks department? I don't see how an abusive husband figures into your initial statement. Maybe an "ugly" feller would bring beauty to your life. Or is that too boring?

i don't get where you people are saying she into looks... only thing she has said was she was good looking, nothing about what shes looking for...

however, it does sound like your a bit bitter... easy to fall in that hole, but i'm sure the right guy can take that away...

try posting more in the forums, and you'll find more of the real guys around...

"letsss get real"

Garfield and Odie did that once. It didn't work out for them.

oh, ok... i guess i missed that part... now i see why...

you must be a very unhappy person to take what i said and turn it into that. i get plenty of hits on this site from a lot of different types. in the end they just want to sex text or aren't even from the states. i never said anything about a relationship. apparently a lot can be added by someone elses negative thoughts woudn't YOU say

it happens... 85% of the women that try to talk to me i'm not interested in, but no sense crying about it... i only want one, i can wait for her...

HUH? If my comments are being referenced, you, madame, defended your desire to meet your "match in the looks department" with the revelation of domestic violence. I merely pointed out that this is incongruent. Furthermore, you don't want "foreign" sex texts, you don't want to be accused of looking for a relationship, what do you want?

I suggested, not out of unhappiness, but out of simple reason, that you should search and contact men that meet your physical standards and live near you or in any area you deem suitable.

My intent was to provoke thought not hostility.

Best of luck in your waiting.

Why not just set filters on who can send messages, that should take care of many problems. Sorry there is no filter for "Only pretty people"

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