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Gee. When I first saw the title for this thread I thought it was going to be about me. But since I haven't gone out with you I guess it's not. I agree with Leigh. You should call the police to report his crazy butt. He sure doesn't sound like he has a firm grip on reality. Threatening you through the first part of the call and then asking you to take him back. Maybe he got that kind of thing from his mom growing up. Izzy, I hope this isn't like you 
His parent's seemed normal, but who knows what life was like when he was a kid! There are 7 of them... he has 5 brothers 1 sister While I do admit to being somewhat emotionally detached to people which is more of a defense system. I do feel empathy for others which is one thing psycho and sociopaths can't do. As to his parent's. Lots of people maybe evil in private and hide it to outsiders. I would consider looking at his siblings.If any of them seem to have the same characteristics or are screwed up badly or not. Not all of them will be messed up. But if one or both of the parents were abusive then chances are more then one is going to have problems. Right now, Izzy... not to sound cold or callous, but I could give a SH%T, about how his family treated him. My goal is to run and disappear from his world forever. |
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I used to know a guy like you describe and he's the one person that I used to know back then that I never want to have anything to do with ever again. He was more a friend of my brothers but the guy did have quite a lot of charm and that gift of the gab thing that the Irish are supposed to have. He would do things like shooting up heroin in front of people to freak them out and he ended up doing time for murdering a kid by giving him an overdose. This is one of the reasons that I moved away from where I used to live and from the people that I used to hang about with. Don't want someone like that getting my address or phone number.
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Exactly Tawt! Exactly...
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Gee. When I first saw the title for this thread I thought it was going to be about me. But since I haven't gone out with you I guess it's not. I agree with Leigh. You should call the police to report his crazy butt. He sure doesn't sound like he has a firm grip on reality. Threatening you through the first part of the call and then asking you to take him back. Maybe he got that kind of thing from his mom growing up. Izzy, I hope this isn't like you
His parent's seemed normal, but who knows what life was like when he was a kid! There are 7 of them... he has 5 brothers 1 sister While I do admit to being somewhat emotionally detached to people which is more of a defense system. I do feel empathy for others which is one thing psycho and sociopaths can't do. As to his parent's. Lots of people maybe evil in private and hide it to outsiders. I would consider looking at his siblings.If any of them seem to have the same characteristics or are screwed up badly or not. Not all of them will be messed up. But if one or both of the parents were abusive then chances are more then one is going to have problems. Right now, Izzy... not to sound cold or callous, but I could give a SH%T, about how his family treated him. My goal is to run and disappear from his world forever. I was basically saying that would be an indication of abuse. I certainly understand you not wanting anything to do with that person. |
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Tee Bee I know that we all only know each other from this site but believe me be very careful when dealing with people like this. I have dealt with someone like this before and my relatives are in police work and it really is nothing to push aside.When he realizes that you are serious he might keep on making the threats.Document all calls and threats because the police are limited to what they can do until something occurs.If things pickup maybe apply for a restraining order. Please be careful and best wishes to you.
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@ jack
Now, I am documenting. Before I thought he'd get tired and give up. Since he added the threats, I'm keeping a record. Thanks for your advice :) |
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He never sends threatening emails. Quite the opposite.. On Facebook, which he is blocked, he tells everyone this sob story of how he made a mistake, and loves me deeply . Writes poems. Making my friends think he's the greatest man in the world, until they hear his voice messages to me.
They've since blocked him too. |
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Make no mistake everyone... I'm not whining about this situation. It's just that very few people know. Cause frankly,it's an embarrassing situation to be in.
I think that's what he counts on, so I'm slowly trying involve people so I'll have some type of back up. |
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aww TeeBee I feel for you. I had a psycho ex too. Tried to get a restraining order but they won't do anything unless he has already physically done something or calls 100 times a day...so that was pretty much a useless outlet. thankfully though with that his lawyer told him not to contact me anymore. it's hard to move on when the psycho ex is calling you every day.
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aww TeeBee I feel for you. I had a psycho ex too. Tried to get a restraining order but they won't do anything unless he has already physically done something or calls 100 times a day...so that was pretty much a useless outlet. thankfully though with that his lawyer told him not to contact me anymore. it's hard to move on when the psycho ex is calling you every day. Thank you luv 
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hang in there <3
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