Ok, se start chatting, emails, phonecalls...The intense "connection" Geeling begin, Plans to meet,Think the dame thing at the same time, finish a sentence and the other was thinking it...Falling fast and hard. Then, one day we do not get a chance to talk. now, Not answering email, calls, nothing....What do you think and this guy is the best on here ever!!!! Time differences stopped me from calling him because of his working the next day, should have called? No? Yes? Help, Hurts

Life just gets busy smetimes, know it do's for me.
Want to call him, CALL
Get your answers.

I agree with Sage...CALL him. You need to find out what is going on in HIS head. You will never know...unless you reach out to him. Obviously he is not calling you for one reason or another. Just to ease your mind....be the one that picks up the phone

Tried to call, no answers, and I see just yesterday he put a new testimonial on anothers profile, as a friend but disturbing to me...This is so crazy

Believe me...I can understand that. Testimonals can be VERY hurtful if your NOT getting any from him.

I would try calling a few times and if he doesn't call back then you know that he is not intrested in you. I tried another dating site and I started to talk to this guy and then the emails, texting, and phone calls just stopped and I gave up he wasn't ment to be. I would leave him a message something along the lines of "Hey it is me and I know you are really busy but I miss talking to you, When ever you get time leave me a message just to let me know you are okay." If he doesn't call you back then it might be time to move on it is never good to dwell. I hope this helps and good luck

The part that sucks the most is I got an email telling me to look at it..I know he talks to others, I know he will make a decision when we meet. Why do others want to make a problem, I could lose either way right? I give up

I guess that is the toughest part about dating sites is you don't know what the person might be saying to other people. If you need help let me know

We are IM now, he is pissed that someone here told me this, but I knew he was talking to others thats what this site is...Until we declare exclusive, I am another competitor right

Smiles...

People will talk to others...
There is not much you can do about that. What matters is if he is serious ENOUGH about you. There is not much you can do about him talking. What would matter to me...is if he put you FIRST before all others. Does that make any sense to you?

Perfect sense
I just got freaked at someone elses entertainment about this

If you feel like your competing, then I would rethink the whole matter. Relationships start with FRIENDSHIP, not a competition.
Least ways not how I look at it.

if he is talking to others
do the same

you may hit it off with someone else
don't rush it

some are in it for the thrill of the chase
and then when they think they have caught you they get bored and move on

don't put all your eggs in one basket...

Don't sweat it, sounds like he wants to play games, move on, life is too short

Good Lord, my Grandma's voice is just coming out of me today

This is the problem with "internet" dating. You really don't know whats going on in this other persons head or what they are really doing. Heck you really don't know if they are being honest with you or not. For all you know, they might have a whole complete different life that you are not even aware of. I think you just have to go with your gut feelings.
Life is way to short to sit here and "compete" with someone that you can't see. Why play these little games? If he stopped talking to you...then he did that for a reason. Why let this person get the best of your emotions? You should start talking to other people and go one with your life and not wait for him to get back with you!! Who knows, you might be missing the perfect one for you!!!
Good luck

i agree this is a dating site, so get to know others.
You said you talk,email,etc. Does he call you or do you do all the calling ?

Have you agreed to be exclusive or are you dating,talking to others ?

hang in there we never know what is around the corner, literally.

I just wanted to say I'm going thru the same thing..me and this guy i was dating, broke up 3 weeks ago..we had some words..i said some pretty crappy things to him, then came back an apologised..he said for me to "take care" that was it..nothing else..he wont talk to me..i know what i said to him was wrong, but what happend to "forgiveness"??..I emailed him yesterday to see how he was, no response as of yet and i have a feeling I wont get one..i think hes resentful on what i said to him even though he said he accepted my apology..i dont think he even wants to talk to me..at all!! and it really hurts..i really liked this guy, alot!!! things just go so messed up about this.. hurts, but me and my big goddamn mouth, so..i have to let it go move on...

He may be avoiding you and if that is the case then you don't want to be around him anyway. If he is just busy then he'll get back to you.

Good Luck...............Benz !

Camprife! I admire HOW you are apoligizing and MANY wil too. That is a virtue and commendable.
So if he is human HE WILL SOFTEN UP and at least resume talking to you, BUt remember, an ONLINE dating Site is one that allows for communicating with MANY special friends at the same time UNTIL persons filter down to ONE exclusive.

So try not to make that mistake again. But then, If you are not ABLE to say SOMETHING NOW, something that you can be forgiven for, how would a relationship woth THAT person WORK in the FUTURE???

So is it not BETTER you get LESS hurt now that UNBEARABLE HURT IN THE FUTURE???

If he comes back like how he was? Then You KNOW that he is FORGIVING and CONDUSIVE TO a long lasting relationship, or he has chosen YOU to be that FINAL person in his life. If not well, HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU OR YOU HIM?

DON'T WORRY. As I said. Many right HERE will find your penitance is WIFE MATERIAL and you will HAVE to tell them: "Please form a line and stop fighting to see me. I will LISTEN to ALL of you. Just WAIT your turn."

MEN LOVE WOMEN, WHO, WHEN THEY ARE WRONG, THEY SAY THAT THEY ARE SORRY AND SHOW IT!!!!!

THATS what your into, IS, INTERNET DATING..
and PEOPLE,,lol HE SAID,,,SHE SAID,,,and who knows if its REAL or MADE just so THEY could SEE YOUR reactions...
If the guy really digs YOU, he WILL NOT just turn away from you,,if HE DOES,,he's NOT worthy of being WITH YOU!!

It THAT simple,,,PLAYERS look away, EASY.
REAL liking guy, will REALLY LOOK INTO YOU,,and if they like YOU, they KEEP "ALL" the lines of communications OPEN...

DON'T FALL EASY ON HERE, or YOU will have many hurtful experiences....