Wow!! Good answers!!

A touch, a note, a look, a kiss, a hug, a gesture that wasn't necessary.

A fire, a sunset, a sunrise, candlelight, a bath, a breakfast,(shared)

Enough.....I'm going to start feeling lonely...

OK,Joyce,,,lol

Let me get this RIGHT,,,ok??

ANY ACT,,,THAT INCLUDES GETTING NAKED OR HAVING SEX,,,IS YOUR DEFINITION FOR ROMANTIC,,,,,,,lol

WELL, I must admit,,,THAT IS ROMANTIC,

When you spend time together, help each other out with chores to free up more time to spend together. Sometimes lending a hand can even be fun when you are both working together.

i've never had romance in my life

A note left in her pocket, stoppin' at the roadside to pick her flowers, prepare her a nice supper, candle lit bath w/oils.

I tried to do romantic things for my ex but they were wasted on a drunk, ripped up the clothing I bought him, threw the meals I cooked him across the room, etc. He never returned anything romantic either, Kater. I am giving ideas from things I have done recently or have thought about doing.

Some day you will, just takes time to meet the right guy. Like they say, when you stop looking you will meet him. I think I believe in that saying these days.

Patience my dear, just be patient. There are lots of good guys on here.

I am the biggest romantic fool i know!!!

But i can be nasty as well!!

Ooohhh, but what a combination.

I wish I had a romantic guy!!! :( Romantic to me is a nice backrub after work (not me doing it, but getting one, for once!!), sweet notes and letters, sitting on my porch with me and watching storms, laying under the stars, flowers and candy and all that sweet stuff

anything unexpected that shows you care. small gestures are some of the best and most meaningful.

if only...

To me the word Romance is over used and misused...

like the word "Hero...

So, since everyone has the right to post what they think...
I will stick to my deepest feelings about love & romance....

To me being romantic is soooooo much more than
just getting naked with someone and having sex...

There has to be much more of a connection
than just a sexual one,
for me to consider it romantic....

Heck...cockroaches have sex all day and night...

Does that make them romantic????? Hardly....

Candles and bubblebath...all nice,
but the most important thing to me,
more so than what I am doing,
is the quality of company I keep....

That is what makes all the difference in the world.
The distinction between mediocre survival and really living.

Wait romantic moment!!!!
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I give up on waiting for Romance to find me....

Kater, never say never. Patience, just takes time to find the right guy.

but 37 years of patience?

It takes time to pick and choose!!!

too bad they can't pick me and mean it

good point gypsy

Romantic Ideas Make a little loving gesture every day for one full year.
Cuddle on the sofa and watch a movie.
Take a bubble bath together.
Walk on the beach in the moonlight.
Put a note in a romance novel saying, "The story is great but our own love story is the best".
Put a single red rose on the seat of your lover's car before they go to work.
Send your lover a virtual postcard at least once a week.
Get every book ever written by your loved one's favorite author.
Get every movie starring your lovers favorite actor.
Keep twenty pounds of your lovers favorite candy on hand.
Take her to see the movie Titanic fifteen times.
Make love to him/her every night until he/she asks you to stop.
Give him/her twelve dozen roses on all their special days.
Compose a list: "101 Reasons Why You're the Greatest" Write each reason on a separate square of paper. Wrap them in a fancy gift box.
Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
Relax with a glass of white wine.
Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.
Buy a bunch of fish at a pet store. It doesn't matter what kind. Leave it for your lover with a note saying " Out of all the fish in the sea, you are the one for me".
Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
Put a blindfold on your lover and drive them to a place where you have a blanket, candles, strawberries, sparkling drinks, and a rose. Park the car and take off the blindfold while you read a poem you have written for them.
While your lover is in the shower, or bath, put their bath towel in a hot dryer for a few minutes. Greet them when they get out of the shower with the toasty towel.
Pull the bag out of your lovers breakfast cereal box and slit a small hole in it. Insert a love note. Tape up the bag and return it to the box. What a way to start the day!
Write a list of 50 or more things you like or love about your sweetheart.
Unplug the TV set. Put a note on the screen saying, "Turn Me on Instead".
Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
Build your lover a web page telling them why you love them so much. Mention special moments and add some images and cool links to topics that interest them. Surf the web with them one day and just "stumble upon it". Or have someone send them an anonymous email with the link inviting them to the page.
Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
Fix a hot cup of Raspberry Chocolate, cuddle in a warm afghan and watch An Affair to Remember.
Place a perfumed handkerchief in the dryer with your sheets before drying.
Send your love a letter with confetti hearts inside of the letter so they pour out everywhere when your sweetheart opens it.
Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
Share your romantic fantasies
Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
Write a love note or poem on a piece of paper and then cut it up into puzzle-like pieces. Send one a day to your special someone.
Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
Carve "His" and "Hers" jack-o-lanterns at Halloween.
Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
Camp-out in a tent with your lover and picnic in a tree house
Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.
Spend one solid hour exploring various kissing techniques.
Turn your "bedroom" into a "boudoir". Use soft colors and fabrics, fresh cut flowers on your nightstand, mirrors everywhere, etc. Hang your lovers Favorite art on your walls.
Many more romantic tips at
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God gave u 2 legs to walk.2 hands to hold.2 ears to hear.2 eyes to see.But why did he giv u only 1 Heart? Probably because He wants you to look for the other......
lots of ideas .... noone to share them with though..here maybe some one else will find a use for these.

Random moments that reflect geniune interest in your partners day. Whether its the routine day or the leisure day. Sittin together painting my toes with someone is romantic to me.. but another>> EX) While they are at work leave a note in their car, include any activity u want to treat them to, or leave it as it is just a note, etc.. Tons of people blah blah sunrise blah blah walk on the beach blah blah, seems so script.. Romance-natural behavior, its there or not.

Those half day spas are real nice to go to, where they have massages/saunas/mud baths.. co-ed. I have experienced those seaside type cottages right on the ocean. That can get pricey but top on the romance scale.