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Topic: Just when you think you know someone
redhead_indy81's photo
Wed 09/12/07 05:46 PM
They change. Dramatically.

I think I'm done dating. For a while.

lissa_327's photo
Wed 09/12/07 05:54 PM
dont blame you one bit!

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Wed 09/12/07 05:55 PM
I hear the flu has been going around.

cvaughn34's photo
Wed 09/12/07 05:58 PM
I would say don't give up...but in a way I have as well. I sure understand what you mean.

HillFolk's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:04 PM
Friendship is a heck of lot easier.

redhead_indy81's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:15 PM
What's bad about this situation is that I fell hard for this guy. Real hard, and that's so unlike me.

He's still hung up with his ex.

wtf.

Either you like her or you don't. End of story, move on with life.

That's how I think anyway.

(Yeah, I'm a little upset... sorry)

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:57 PM
redhead...

There is nothing wrong with being upset. if you didn't enjoy being with him you probably wouldd not have cared that he went back with HER. Not that this will make you feel any better, but there ALOT of other guys out there. Maybe he will realize what he has given up...

flowerforyou

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Wed 09/12/07 07:03 PM
its always bad to assume how someone you THINK is. i dunno about your guys but i always have low expectations for people unless they prove otherwise

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Wed 09/12/07 07:04 PM
I don't blame you either. It's disgruntling and frustrating so much of the time! grumble

kojack's photo
Wed 09/12/07 07:05 PM
yup happened to me 2x on here

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 09/12/07 07:11 PM
huh

bookworm's photo
Wed 09/12/07 07:15 PM
Internet dating is fine and good.... it's sometimes the *only* way (like when you work from home)... but it's not perfect. The only way you can really get to know somebody is to spend face-to-face time with them.

Sad but true fact.

redhead_indy81's photo
Wed 09/12/07 07:32 PM
I didn't meet him online, at work actually. I've known him for a year but never spoke about non-work stuff up until a week ago.




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Wed 09/12/07 07:48 PM
flowerforyou In all respect to you....I think it takes a person at least 2 years to get to really "know" someone......so don't feel bad and at least you didnt marry the guy....

Lakeman's photo
Wed 09/12/07 08:16 PM
Yea people sometimes put on a fake act till they have to wipe the kids butts and deal with real life!!laugh

yokoke's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:44 PM
>I think it takes a person at least 2 years to get to really "know" someone
Curious on why 2 years Gypsy?



Maybe he needs time to heal and do things for himself before he jumps right back into another relationship or test the waters?


cajunwhitetiger's photo
Wed 09/12/07 09:47 PM
u did right move on hun
someone hung up on there ex means they still feel something for them.
other guys out there would love to have chance with someone like you.

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Wed 09/12/07 09:51 PM
Lets face it,,,we ALL see someone for MORE than they really are, but can WE still except THEIR truth as to what WE perceived
THEIR truth to be?? Or are WE so FULL of "THAT" image THAT we can't still make life work with them,,,or should WE??

This IS AN ISSUE close to my heart to...:heart:

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Wed 09/12/07 09:53 PM

Just be glad that you found out now instead of later.

Hang in there! flowerforyou

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Wed 09/12/07 10:47 PM
this happens when we hurry things
most of the times
we idolized an individual, and when this person is not what we thought the frsustration comes
it's better to spend more time as friends, so wh ahve the chance to see this person facing different circumstances

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