Hey sweets, you ride English or western?

Let me u show u boys a way to a woman's heart.

the way to a woman's heart is to be nice and just be yourself...hopefully that includes being nice

In my case...I would like to find a men to love me, respect me, be honest and faithful...be there for me and hold my hand in good and bad days. Because I will do the same thing for him. I'm not asking for too much I don't think!

Best answer so far. Simple, direct, honest.
Most regular guys might even understand it.

We all want something different , I just want to spend quality time, oh and maybe a good hug once in a while. Hi all

What do women want? Age old question. They do not know what they want. That's why we can never figure it out. It changes from day to day.
In the 10 years I have been off and on dating sites I have learned that most women on these sites are just bored. They want admirers, and chat buddys. Or they are looking for that perfect image they have had since childhood. "Knight in shiny armor". Those are looking for a perfect looking guy, with perfect hair, perfect tan, and perfect bank account. You can spot those easy. If they say they have kids, and love to travel, that means there a gold digger. Do you realize how much money it costs to travel with kids? They will name a lot of expensive things they claim to love doing. And seeking a guy that can do them too. What they mean is they want to do those things, and want a guy that can afford to pay for it.

Also... and this goes for both guys and girls.... A lot of people on dating sites put who they wish they were, or who they would like to be, instead of who they really are. Just look at the long list of things they claim to love doing. Seriously? Who has that much time to do all those things, and work too? Especially if that person has kids.
That list is usually a list of things they want to do, or wish they could do, and hope to find a guy to fulfill those dreams.

it's a mystry which cannot be solved mate

Thanks for your comment panchovanilla. I'm glad somebody knows what am I talking about.

if it was only that simple...

then we all have a GF/BF...

I agree with mightymoe on this one.

Women can have unmentioned wants, and if a man doesn't meet them, then the man is out of luck.

Thanks for your comment mightymoe! Is the reason I stated "In my case" Is all what I'm looking for

Dodo_David, If you always think the way...you never going to meet the right person. I think it goes both ways, but you got to learn to give and take not just take

I merely stated an observation.

Also, I already met the right woman ... my late wife.

Well... It's too bad you don't live near Charlotte. But then again if you did, you probably wouldn't reply to my mail like 99.9% of the rest who make the same claims in there profiles.
There is always a stipulation.... He has to look a certain way or you might never want to get to know him and find out if he has those qualities.

Love and security...

Someone to laugh with and talk to.

That is why you need a Melmacian.

He speaks truth.
You see... there is a funny thing about truth. It remains truth weather you want to believe it or not.
He came to that conclusion through experience. He didn't read it in a book, or just make it up. It is a fact.
Please don't tell me you reply to 100% of all messages you get. There has to be at least one person you looked at and based on his picture you did not want to talk to him. He could have possessed every one of the qualities you mentioned. But you will never know if you don't talk to him. And really... You need to date a person for a few months to find out if he is real or not. Typing and texting isn't the way.
And if, and I do mean IF, the right person comes along for him, or me, then they will show us that she is different. And then we will be wrong. But until that happens, we remain right.
I have the same view.