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| Topic: What is the attitude about "Friends with Benefits?" | |
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I don't go poking my nose into other people's relationships. It's none of my business what two lovers decide. It's not like it's gonna kill me. I have better things to do, than say "Oh no. Why is she with him?". There's all sorts of reasons why. I don't make it my problem.
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I don't go poking my nose into other people's relationships. It's none of my business what two lovers decide. It's not like it's gonna kill me. I have better things to do, than say "Oh no. Why is she with him?". There's all sorts of reasons why. I don't make it my problem.   exactly we have our own "hims" to be concerned with
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Benefit packages are very good. Makes a job more attractive. calling BS on this. I don;t consider letting some guy use me at his convenience without a commitment (so only god knows who else he is sleeping with) a "benefit." I would not be interested in someone who thinks a FWB is ethical I wouldn't lower my standards 
Actually I threw that in to see if anyone was paying attention. it's just that I am selfish I don't wanna share my benefit "package" (heh heh) 
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Clint, people have their own reasons for being in this situation. I was in one for 3 years. He wanted his freedom to do what he wanted and I guess I wasn't ready to commit as well so it worked out fine for us. I no longer speak to him because he would just pop in unanounced and I hated that..anyways sometimes its a matter of convenience exactly. men who want FWB are a least honest about being inconsiderate users right from the start. What you describe is being treated like property which I also have found typical of the FWB, but , no thanks...lol your comment reflects what I have also observed time and time again, and he will not commit to his FWB. He will have an FWB with you and commit to someone else. When he does it's over for you...with you having no say in the matter. just like that. Sorry I have seen too much of this for too long to be fooled or influenced. I would never accept that arrangement - as I have said I wouldn't lower my standards or get involved with someone that creepy [/quote I am not for it on a personal level, whatever two consenting adults do is their business. Creepy, wouldn't go that far though. I believe FWB's is another way of saying "I fear commitment" or possibly "I want my cake and eat it too" ya, I think wanting my cake and eat it too is a little creepy...it depaersonalizes and devalues - "this person is only good for sex." creepy...in highschool we thought those kindsa guys were creepy pervs and really not much changes after HS...lol I never said anything about telling others what to do. Just why it is not for me |
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