Topic: Older or younger?
TawtStrat's photo
Tue 02/18/14 05:45 PM
I almost dated an eighteen year old last year but she was a bit too immature. I spoke to a friend of mine about it and she said that it wasn't cool and I should be dating women that are at least twenty. I don't know about a relationship. That's what I'm looking for but none of the women my age or older that I meet are and it's like they don't even like men anymore.

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Tue 02/18/14 08:09 PM


Some go for someone half their age or twice their age. I don't, too much of an age gap. Not interested in an old fart nor in a snot-face. laugh
For a relationship I'm willing to go some 7 years either way. Sure you want someone in the same phase of life, which means someone more than 10 yrs younger/older isn't that person. People can argue that all they like, I'm not going to con myself into believing myths.
For a hot date I have a different rule-book.


How is the rule-book different for a hot date?


Does it involve lapdancing?

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Tue 02/18/14 08:45 PM
I like older guys. They seem to be better adjusted in life. Younger guys are very sweet and willing to please though. 27-39 is a good range.

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Tue 02/18/14 08:49 PM





Since I got divorced I have been meeting either guys on their 20's or on their 50's as a general rule. I have met a few that are on their 30's as well but not that many. I have always wondered when young is too young and old is too old.




I think it more about the person and what your looking for. I'm 51 and the youngest for me would be middle forty's. I don't really put a limit on older because I prefer a woman to be where I'm at in life. I find Women my age or older very desirable because of their knowledge of life, their ability to deal with real life problems,and how beautiful they are.


I'm framing this^^bigsmile ...Thank you for being you ((((Jack))))flowers smitten :heart: flowerforyou


What about me then leigh???


You're too short....laugh
rofl rofl

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Tue 02/18/14 08:51 PM

Whatever you are comfortable with, to hell with everyone else...They're not waking up in your shoes.


well thank heavens for that. I still have something to call my own lol

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Wed 02/19/14 06:16 AM

Some go for someone half their age or twice their age. I don't, too much of an age gap. Not interested in an old fart nor in a snot-face. laugh
For a relationship I'm willing to go some 7 years either way. Sure you want someone in the same phase of life, which means someone more than 10 yrs younger/older isn't that person. People can argue that all they like, I'm not going to con myself into believing myths.
For a hot date I have a different rule-book.


I am really surprised there are no comments on this reply.

???

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Wed 02/19/14 06:26 AM


Some go for someone half their age or twice their age. I don't, too much of an age gap. Not interested in an old fart nor in a snot-face. laugh
For a relationship I'm willing to go some 7 years either way. Sure you want someone in the same phase of life, which means someone more than 10 yrs younger/older isn't that person. People can argue that all they like, I'm not going to con myself into believing myths.
For a hot date I have a different rule-book.


I am really surprised there are no comments on this reply.

???


Perhaps the answer can be found in the cards?...

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Wed 02/19/14 06:34 AM
Edited by alexfon68 on Wed 02/19/14 06:34 AM



Some go for someone half their age or twice their age. I don't, too much of an age gap. Not interested in an old fart nor in a snot-face. laugh
For a relationship I'm willing to go some 7 years either way. Sure you want someone in the same phase of life, which means someone more than 10 yrs younger/older isn't that person. People can argue that all they like, I'm not going to con myself into believing myths.
For a hot date I have a different rule-book.


I am really surprised there are no comments on this reply.

???


Perhaps the answer can be found in the cards?...


"You're travelling through another dimension, a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind; a journey into a wondrous land whose boundaries are that of imagination. That's the signpost up ahead - your next stop, Mingle2!"

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Wed 02/19/14 06:47 AM
Good morning,sweetestflowerforyou


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Wed 02/19/14 06:56 AM

Good morning,sweetestflowerforyou




well well, good morning, good to see you!flowerforyou

prashant01's photo
Wed 02/19/14 07:02 AM


Good morning,sweetestflowerforyou




well well, good morning, good to see you!flowerforyou


Just good...??ill

I was expecting better....:smile:

( JK)

Thanks,good to see you too...how r u doing,sweetest?

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Wed 02/19/14 07:53 AM
Edited by Torgo70 on Wed 02/19/14 07:54 AM

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Wed 02/19/14 08:09 AM




Another thread being veered off course. Seems to happen alot.


yes some of us have been on here together for awhile and we occasionally comment to each other. I believe the thread already has an OP so how is it that you have appointed yourself?


Occasionally??? I know you do with your 26,507 posts and I know the posts are not all about interesting topics.

This happens on just about every thread, call me crazy but I think threads should stay on topic. Maybe I am spoiled from reading other forums. There is a thread called meaningless topics or threads, whatever.

You have every right to go off topic if you so desire and i have the right to comment on it. Appoint myself? Others think it too, including one that had been on here for awhile and deactivated their account. I just chose to type it.

By all means, continue with your day to day conversations
with your inner circle and I will speak my mind.

Thank you for not putting a smiley face at the end of your sentence. thank you, also for for replying with two sentences. Most people reply with one sentence or less. Well done.


It's better one sentence that's to the point, than long winded rambles.


On some topics, sure. I am referring to the hijacking of good threads with the same compliments, bantering etcera. There are threads on here that cover that. The coffee house, meaningless threads, the thread making vague comments etcera. Plenty of them.

This is the last time I am bringing this up. Does every thread have to hijacked by people with 20,000 (+) posts? Just bringing it up, it is what it is. People are not going to change, but I am going to give my opinion. hijacking threads are rude and boring.

Ever wonder the reasons people really deactivate their accounts here? Some are obvious and some are becoming obvious.

I am done with my long winded rambling. Thank you for investing your 22,759th post on me.

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Wed 02/19/14 08:15 AM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 02/19/14 08:17 AM

Since I got divorced I have been meeting either guys on their 20's or on their 50's as a general rule. I have met a few that are on their 30's as well but not that many. I have always wondered when young is too young and old is too old.



I guess it really doesn't matter..as long as your happy.flowerforyou
Each to their own.

#on topic

prashant01's photo
Wed 02/19/14 08:24 AM
Physically younger mentally older....(just not tiresome)
Physically older mentally younger...(just not childish)

TawtStrat's photo
Wed 02/19/14 10:08 AM
I remember this time on another site where most of the regulars in a chat channel were playing this game where they were all basically spamming. I found it a bit tedious myself but there were other chat channels to go into and I did. Another guy complained to the mods about it though and they didn't do anything about it because although spamming was technically against the rules, what mods really don't like is people disrupting chat and the thing is, it can get to a point where there's a sort of critical mass and if most of the people in a chat channel are spamming and getting on with each other the chat is still flowing and not really being disrupted.

I'm not sure what your complaint is. It's a dating site and a lot of people like to flirt and compliment each other. It might not be relevant to the topic but it arguably makes it a friendlier community. We all have our pet peeves and I don't particularly like having to scroll through a lot of smileys and nested quotes either but this forum is just like that and rules are always really just guidelines on any forum.

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Wed 02/19/14 11:20 AM



Since I got divorced I have been meeting either guys on their 20's or on their 50's as a general rule. I have met a few that are on their 30's as well but not that many. I have always wondered when young is too young and old is too old.

im divorced too. age isnt important. i almost dated a 28yo from mexico that i met on here. i almost dated a 34 yo from colorado. ive been talking to a 20yo from england and a 45yo from north carolina. age is not important.

Now that is what I would call a "globetrotter"

not really. the mexican girl has a lover in india and shes been seeing her boss too. noway im going down there. not going to london for a one night stand. can get that here. dont know what the deal is with the girl in colorado. the 45yo and i have talked. shes moving to california once she finishes her masters.

BettyB's photo
Wed 02/19/14 12:41 PM
All I know is that if I had closed my mind completely on someone much younger than myself, the last year and a half would not be as wonderful as it has been.

PacificStar48's photo
Wed 02/19/14 12:59 PM

All I know is that if I had closed my mind completely on someone much younger than myself, the last year and a half would not be as wonderful as it has been.



Yea Betty!!!

BettyB's photo
Wed 02/19/14 12:59 PM


All I know is that if I had closed my mind completely on someone much younger than myself, the last year and a half would not be as wonderful as it has been.



Yea Betty!!!

Believe me I am as surprised as anybody.lol