I know a lady she is married to a young handsome guy. According to the lady the husband is nice, caring and faithful. She claims to love the husband but she hate her in law without a reason .Any time the mother in law visit them she will fustrate her. She admitted to me that her mother in law is nice and good to her yet she treat her badly even though she knew that her husband loves her mum. Can this be true love how can she love a man and hate his moh ier without a reason. I think she is a heavy pretender.

Can be truelove. .. might be his mum blames the lady for things. . So that frustrates her.. else it seems true love

No you don't understand she said that her mother inlaw is good but she hates her .she does not want her to visit at all. But when her mother visits she love and care for her. I don't think is true love is selfish and self centred love.

U need to know some things more in detail. .. its not necessary when someone is good no one can hate that person. .. dere will be reasons for her to say so... u need to know more

That doesn't make sense, if the MIL is nice to her, why does she hate her? Either there's more to the story, or she's crazy....

Sounds to me she is the jealous, possessive type and resents the bond the husband has with his Mother.
She is selfish and wants him all to herself.

Exactly

You'd be surprised how many don't like their in-laws much. . It's not true for EVERYONE, but I hear it plenty from married couples.

Hell boy there many women that hate their mother in law because they want their husband for themselves only They are possessive, greedy and selfish.They don't want to see anybody near their husband including her husband immediate family.

Hell boy there many women that hate their mother in law because they want their husband for themselves only They are possessive, greedy and selfish.They don't want to see anybody near their husband including her husband immediate family.

I wondered about that. Some people are weird like that.

Maybe he is very close with his mother and it makes her jealous. A lot of women I've met act out with hostility when they get jealous even when it unwarranted. I hear a lot of women telling me how they hate other women, possibly because of the competition in many cases?

I think is lack of understanding because before you meet your husband his mother was one that brought him to this world. She raised him care and loved him if a woman love a man she should also love the mother. That is true love .

She is also probably very insecure.

I also wonder if he is a Mamas boy and always puts the needs of his Mother first. That would tick me off too.

Unless you've actually experienced living with a mother-in-law for some time, you can never say that they're nice and you love them. :D

Yes they nice