it's about human nature , not about human sex , both males and females need sex , will you not do the same if your partner left you and/or stopped fulfilling your needs ?

My sentiments EXACTLY!

Finally a intelligent response.

That is a load of bull your man is feeding you. If a true man is happy. By getting love sex and with their soul match. Why won't he stray.

Took a sociology class where the instructor was a relationship therapist. According to her you have two separate entities in a relationship that depend on one another.

1. Sex

2. Other forms of affection and romance (like the "support" you spoke of).

When one suffers, the other will eventually follow, so both are important to keeping a healthy relationship. When there is a good physical reason one area is lacking than a couple, who are committed, will find ways to work around it.

She also mentioned that if there is something, anything, missing in a relationship that one person finds important, he/she will find said thing elsewhere. She claims it is important to remember that fact, and the fact that your significant other will NEVER be "off the market". This is important because it reminds us to never get complacent. We must continue to go out of our way to please those that are so special to us with the same vigilance we used to win him/her over.

Not all men are the same just like every women is not loyal and holding on to the relationship same way every man is not a cheater or dishonest in relationship.We should really avoid generalization.

As per my personal opinion relationship and love is a lot more than sex and love means loyalty and commitment and though sex is important i would never be with a girl just for the sake of sex there will be many other good things to our relationship and hence no need to spoil that because you can't have sex for some time.

Hell no its not true..If you cheat on someone, then you dont love that person,PERIOD!! I would end a relationship if i feel im need to sleep with another woman.

Men needs sex. I do, I did try to find another when I broke up, but it's hard. I gave up. I better gulp down some brandy or any alco tonight.

AGREED Even when he says something I agree with I doubt it is originally his idea. I think a lot of his stuff sounds very familiar to what others have said for years repackaged.

Of course that isn't true.

I would think she would stray before me since I'm asexual...That means I don't like sex, not the alien reproducing mechanism.

I can't speak for other men but for myself when I'm in love I'm in love and that means dealing with all problems that come along. If a woman was pregnant with my child I would not have the desire to cheat on her ,I mean I'm starting a family with this woman and I'm going to put my lust on the line for that? No way. If you can't wait until a woman is off her cycle to have sex then you don't know what true love is.When things get stale you got to have communication , you have to step up and be a real man. If your cheating then things are already over.

i m looking for a female who is also interested in me.

i m here to get such female whose physical and mental needs can be fulfilled by me and she can mine

My experience is that 50% of the men cheat and the rest don't. Since 50% seek multiple partners it makes it look like more cheat than do. I don't cheat because:

A: It's dishonest and I'm an honest person.

B: I only have enough focus for one partner. I give every day of myself because I think that is the only way it can work.

C: If I am interested and in love, why the hell would I want to screw it up?

D: If I don't love someone and want to be with someone else, it seems perfectly logical to leave and go find someone with whom I could be happy.

In my opinion, women cheat just as much as men do. In my opinion also, cheaters tend to trend culturally so lawyers cheat more than non-lawyers. Science-types (like me) tend to cheat less than most (it's just not logical), etc.

Ethnic groups tend also to cheat differently. I read where central Africans cheat the most with many, many different partners. I guess a lot of it is how you were raised and taught.

Nice post Joe ...Glad someone finally mentioned the cultural connection, I believe it too :)..I think there are many things that contribute to a persons willingness to cheat, things that go beyound their feelings for their partner and many times, things that have absolutely nothing to do with the dynamics of the relationship...I find it sad, this diminished value if you will...Seems cheating has almost become a given by today's standards....Something acceptable, excusable., normal.....

Part of it is our role models starting with our parents. Some part of it is our heroes (Hollywood?) or politicians (Bill Clinton?). I guess a lot of it is just chance depending upon what happened when you were at an impressionable age, peer pressure, and the like.

Right On!

The purpose of morality is to teach you, not to suffer and die, but to enjoy yourself and live. John Galt

In spite of all their irrationalities, inconsistencies, hypocrisies and evasions, the majority of men will not act, in major issues, without a sense of being morally right and will not oppose the morality they have accepted. They will break it, they will cheat on it, but they will not oppose it; and when they break it, they take the blame on themselves. The power of morality is the greatest of all intellectual powers—and mankind’s tragedy lies in the fact that the vicious moral code men have accepted destroys them by means of the best within them.

Philosophy: Who Needs It

“Faith and Force: The Destroyers of the Modern World,”