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Topic: Love hurts.. please help
Cuddlemaria's photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:29 AM
Thank you all for your advise. I know that he is not worth my time. I need to move on.

DTHRomeo's photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:35 AM
Sometimes is hard to move on

But give yourself time

You'd be OK :smile:

YeaBigsexy's photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:40 AM
Love hurts when theres no lube!!!
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YeaBigsexy's photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:47 AM
laugh Hahaha!laugh
I crack myself up!!!
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no photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:48 AM
sick sick noway noway noway

YeaBigsexy's photo
Wed 09/12/07 12:50 AM
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Im glad i went pee!!!
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TheShadow's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:16 PM
Hmm the topic, thread killer comes to mind.


TheShadow's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:23 PM
Cuddlemaria, all we can do is take care of our selves but if we don't deal with are own issues. Why even bother letting somone get close to us? The one thing I guess I would of don't different, is left the door open if I felt there was a chance. Closing it will leave you to thinking, what if.

cvaughn34's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:30 PM
I have felt that way with my ex. I took her back twice over the course of our relationship, and the final straw came when she admitted she had cheated. Even though I felt betrayed and hurt, I still ached in some ways for her, but I knew I had to stay away. I knew it would not work, so I had to say no and stand by it. You need to do what is best for your heart to keep from getting hurt.

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 09/12/07 06:43 PM
Cuddle...

You alreadyknow your own answers regarding this, you just want us to reassure you that it will be ok. Deep down you know you can't be with him. As Romeo said...give yourself some time.....

flowerforyou

Cuddlemaria's photo
Sat 09/15/07 11:51 AM
The best part of this whole thing is that he wrote me and asked me to come over and "sleep" with him. How MEAN!! I hate guys that play with my emotions, he is so selfish. mad

no photo
Sat 09/15/07 11:54 AM
save yourself some time and emotions and block him, change your email addy if you have to, phone number........this may be costly but if you really want him out of your hair, it may be necessary.

Cuddlemaria's photo
Sat 09/15/07 12:15 PM
I know what you meane, but I dont have the money to do that. He also works in the same town that I live in... AND he works with my father!! I am doomed!!noway

purplecat's photo
Sat 09/15/07 12:18 PM
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW i know love hurts !!
IT HURTS SO BAD YA WANNA KILL IT BUT YA CANT !!...
but ya move on ...an things change ....

flowerforyou

Cuddlemaria's photo
Sat 09/15/07 12:21 PM
That is very true. That is what I am learning right now. Some people dont deserve my kindness and trust. :smile: bigsmile

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 09/15/07 01:18 PM
{{{Cuddle}}}

Everyone deserves your kindness. Your trust has to be earned.

The only thing I can think to say about this guy is to stay away. When you feel like you want to call him, call one of your friends or talk with us here. Email me if you need to. I made a similar mistake and am keeping up the no contact rule. If I can do it, you can!

flowerforyou M

no photo
Sat 09/15/07 02:26 PM
if it didnt work out the first time it probably wouldnt the second go on with your life the sooner you put it behind you the better someone else will come along you usually find love when you least expect italot of times when people get back together it may work out for a little while but eventually those old problems show up again and before you know it youre back where you started good luck in finding a new love as far as the old one try to learn from it.

Cuddlemaria's photo
Sun 09/16/07 05:39 PM
I was so bad last night.... well actually this whole weekend. I was so drunk that I really dont know what I texted to people. drinker This was the weekend of ex's for me.... they are the ones that actually contacted me! And on the same day!! That is totally weird!


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