This is tough. I simply cannot find anyone my age. Don't get me wrong. Spent a long time with a someone ten yrs my senior. She didn't like my music is all. But I would like to meet or talk to some Lady my age.

Hello! Welcome to mingle2 I hope you find what you're looking for. My advice is to get involved in the forums/games, be yourself and have fun.

Don't wait or sit idle you have to make yourself known and get involved. Age should not be a factor if your only looking for friendship.e

you shouldn't have any trouble..but a shirtless photo wearing a hat? really.

just my opinion but I am out of your age range and too far away anyway lol

OK.suggestion then please.

I am just one person. I think you want to do what is comfortable for yourself. It just seems funny seeing someone who is not dressed wearing a hat.

Taking the pic off now. I just have so many questions. That is why I am asking. Just looked at what everyone else was doing which was obviously inappropriate. The question is....as you seem so intimidating... where do you start?I mean where do you start not to notice people or think about them?

hi

If you're asking for suggestions for how to improve your profile, I'd start with the photos, take them all down and take new ones, where you are fully dressed. Most women do not like shirtless photos of men. I'm not sure where men got the idea that that was a "sexy look" or an "inviting look" but when I see a shirtless guy, on a dating site, all it makes me want to do is cover him with a blanket and pass on his profile.

Make sure your new pictures are clear closeup shots of you smiling, and facing the camera. You might like to add some full body shots, again fully dressed, and you might want to add some where you're involved in your favorite activities, if you have any.

I'd remove the part about you being a shy guy, most women like men who have confidence, even if you're shy, fake it, it's the internet, no one has to know. It's much easier to talk to someone online than it is in person, so pretend that you're confident and eager to meet women.

Take out the text about you not trusting anyone. If you're going to date or even if you're just here for friends, you have to trust someone, otherwise what's the point? Instead, talk about what you like to do, what kind of woman you're looking for, even if you consider your interests boring, list them anyway, otherwise, women have no idea what you're like.

That's all so far, good luck to you.

well I honestly have no idea what you are talking about. but I will say what photos you choose to keep or remove needs have nothing to do with what I think but with what you think. I can see no reason why anyone would find me intimidating. that is just funny. but maybe you have hit on what I am looking for...a man who does not find me intimidating

what are the usual reasons a man finds a woman intimidating?

Alright. You have touunderstand that this is so different. Thanks.

I like that question. You want to know what men find intimidating? Oh. I will tell you.

I just spent a lot of time explaining that and my text/ words are gone off this little do hicky.



Picture this...you are just going about your day. Right? Let's say that you decide to look for something for....let's say sun glasses.. now you have no intention on meeting anyone. Right?. Wrong. That person behind that counter is why. Never seen that person don't know who she is. But. She must be having a bad day cause she seems upset.

I thought you men were stronger than us women so why would you find us the least bit intimidating?

I thought you men were stronger than us women so why would you find us
the least bit

intimidating?




That is interesting. I was thinking more along as you..as a woman are in this the same as me. We are human/equal.

I thought you men were stronger than us women so why would you find us
the least bit

intimidating?




That is interesting. I was thinking more along as you..as a woman are in this the same as me. We are human/equal.



Ah, I see. So its the person that is intimidating not necessarily the sex of the person.

Ah, I see. So its the person that is intimidating not necessarily the sex of the person.


Right. You see that I didn't have any intention on meeting anyone. But. And I mean BUT. she was captivating. But was angry or something. What do you say? Don't wanna miss that. Do you understand what I mean?

Brace your self for failure......

Ah, I see. So its the person that is intimidating not necessarily the sex of the person.


Right. You see that I didn't have any intention on meeting anyone. But. And I mean BUT. she was captivating. But was angry or something. What do you say? Don't wanna miss that. Do you understand what I mean?


I guess for me captivating or not; if the first impression I see is anger; I wouldn't even consider the person.