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Where's my cane? It's next to my wheelchair MG. Don't you remember? |
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Such an interesting topic
I think I love Soufie answer as Eyes Wide Open I think we become wiser and in some cases more quirky or we were Always quirky n we just notice it I'm a big believer in being how you feel and not conforming to set patterns I'm 46 and am very proud to be heading to 50 planning to get a motorbike n learn kit drums and feel restless that I need to open an exciting chapter rather than moping n being as lively as possible to me crisis is feeling scared of what society expects from you Once you suss out that you have a choice in every moment of life you won't suffer at all When we are teenagers we go through stuff and in 20 S and 30 s every age has its beauty and its learning " circle " Try to enjoy it and not worry use your wisdom and if you want to express urself howl yell ( in a park lol ) dress funny / differently then do it and breath through it Breathing is good x |
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Edited by
JohnDavidDavid
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Thu 12/26/13 05:35 PM
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"I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened." - Mark Twain
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For me it's been a process of regretting things that I did and didn't do in my youth and feeling regrets about wasted opportunities that I won't get again. One of my biggest regrets in life is that I never had children and here I am now at forty five and I don't even have a girlfriend.
This year I dated a girl half my age and it was like reliving my youth. She was even living the same sort of lifestyle that I did at her age. It made me feel better about myself and that like it's not all over after all. I didn't really expect it to last but while it did it was just nice to enjoy something different happening in my life for a change. I think that's what it's all about. When you are young everything seems new and different but when you get to a certain age you get stuck in a rut, or set in your ways and it can be hard to see much ahead of you apart from just getting old, which can be quite depressing when you are still single and have no family of your own. |
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I just think to each their own. People will do what they want.
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Unwillingness to except who you are and move on.
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