I just signed up last night, every girl in my area shows "last seen in over a month", is this the most effective(people find relationships) or least effective(no one gets back on) dating site?

its a sight where people have lives, take breaks, and occasionally decide not to use the sight anymore,,

watching the forums is a good way to see who is using the sight,,I even thought there was an option to search by last login,,? not sure though,,,

There needs to be a sticky post about this, since everyone keeps asking....sometimes people find someone and they leave the site and don't deactivate their profile, or they get caught up in real life and don't log on for a while, if ever again...it has nothing to do with the site, maybe the people where you are have a really short attention span or they have really good luck finding a partner....either way, expand your search, if you're really serious about finding someone, you will.

Good luck.

Uh, are you using the "mutual match" feature?

If so, then you probably aren't seeing every girl in your area.

I am using all open search critreria ages 25-45.
I have over 400 results and everyone I've checked, last login over a month.
I did start talking to someone far away. And these posts prove some people are on here.
I guess its the short attention span...