Overcoming Your Fear To Overcome Your Partners Emotional Objections




The primary modality in overcoming emotional objection to intimacy in your partner is to dispel fear within yourself.
This is because fear acts in a sort of transference capacity to limit your ability to make decisions from a base of powerful perspective.

Fear is a contagious emotion, and its inward manifestation often becomes outward expression in mood, temperament, and body language. These things though they
can be hidden are easily discernible in the electrical energy that connects all people via higher self.

It can be very discouraging when someone that you have affection for starts to pull their energy away from yours. However, you only make it more challenging
for yourself when you allow fear to be the motivational factor behind why you are trying to close the metaphorical deal between you and your desire.

Valor of emotion within your own reasoning cannot be overstated. If you are in fact confident and self-assured that what you desire will flow forth to you,
then not only will destiny help you, but it will encourage the process as well. If it is meant for you to have the connection in you life, then it will not
be difficult to maintain the emotional intimacy.

If you find yourself operating out of fear and losing the connections that you most desire, the first step is to eliminate the fear factor from your life. In a
a way you are facing your own shadow, and in another you are creating your own destiny.

This process takes time, but it is an overhaul of the complete self that begins with your intentions towards yourself and your life. This then becomes the expectation
that you receive. And ultimately becomes the results that you net.

The most fundamental part of this process begins with the understanding that you have the power within yourself to change the emotional state of mind where you are at
the current moment--if where you are now represents any manifestation of fear.

Self-confidence can do more to dispel fear than any other method you can employ. Some people have trouble displacing the fear because of the length of time
that it has operated in their destiny. A strong connection to higher self or your higher power can be a very good place to begin to find that power that
naturally exists within you.

The beginning is almost always the most challenging, as the old patterns become more solidified the longer that they are present in a person's life. It is then
that a person has to put forth the most effort for the intended release from fear to freedom.

Once the process is started, it becomes the set pattern--generating not only what you want--but ultimately setting you free.


We fear violence less than our own feelings. Personal, private, solitary pain is more terrifying than what anyone else can inflict. -- Jim Morrison

so what is the question?

if some dude rags on tryna argue with me to get me to sleep with him I will SMACK his azz down

unless of course I want to sleep with him

any guy who has to "overcome" a woman's "objections" is a total loser


try lsitening instead

That was a whole lot of lines just to say 'believe in yourself'.

Furthermore, no still means no. Just because whomever you are with is not in the mood does not mean you need to go on a life journey just to change their mind.

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people start life journeys for a lot of reasons.......to me , it should have more to do with knowledge or improvement of the self, and less about changing/controling others :)

interesting idea kartagne

I don't want to work that hard , not even sure why you have to.

Sounds lyk u got this out of a book,direct word 4 word.I wld nevr try persuade sum1to hve sex with me,dats shameful.It shld b a mutual thing.We all human,lets respect eachoda,love is stronger than fear.

I'm too lazy to read all that ****, can someone give me the short version?

Short Version: To the victor go the spoils.

Beware philosophical advice from someone who died in their own vomit.

"I believe in a long, prolonged, derangement of the senses in order to obtain the unknown."

Jim Morrison