Topic: How Soon.... | |
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.... should you give someone your personal info?
ex: cell or home phone, personal email address, etc. I feel you should get to know them online before moving to the next step.... Am I wrong to wait longer than 1 email?!? What happened to getting to know someone before telling all your personal business??? I am curious as to how everyone deals with this issue... |
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i dont have a set time, but always has been after several emails, and i feel perfectly confortable with them, but im a guy and if you make me mad, i would be very mean to you. i think women should maybe go slower
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thanks for sharing topcat
I appreciate it |
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i don't think there should be a time limit, when u fee comfortable with them, and u feel like u can trust them, then maybe u are ready for the next step
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I can relate to no time limit
I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I have to get to know something about them before giving out that kind of info |
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It is a good idea to know someone much better- before giving them any personal info...
Alot of people on here know me as teddy rather than my name. Only people I have known awhile have my e-mail. You can never be too careful on the net!!! |
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thanks baby_gurl
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thanks teddy bear
I feel the same way |
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never give personal info unless you know someone, for me that takes a while. if you ever regretted giving you number to someone in the street then the internet should be no diffrence. create a a public meeting place instead
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like i waited a month before giving out my info to the guy, but we talked like every night for like 4 hours and all that so i know we are comfortable together.
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ok , I just don't see why anyone really needs our personal e-mail address?? we have e-mail here, and IM here, what does our personal e-mail have that this site doesn't?
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What ever you feel safe with and if they will not wait and be understanding..... RED FLAG.....move on
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I got an e-mail from one guy (not this site) asking where we should meet. I was like, I think I need a little more info first!
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Get there full name,address,date of birth,email,phone number and still run a security check.No I'm just kidding I think you'll know yourself when your ready.
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chatting for at least 6 months 4 hours 16 minutes......then you can talk on yahoo......much cheaper than a phone call!!!
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HeartSoul-
You know what you feel comfortable with. Don't let anyone push your personal limits. Stay on site for a while if you wish. Get as much of THEIR personal info as you want if you do decide to meet. Make sure you meet in a PUBLIC place and people know where you are and when you plan on returning. Hugs, M |
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thank you all for your input
you guys have been a big help |
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