I have yet to be contacted by any genuine gay guy on mingle. I have genuine detailed and honest profile with pic. on here. I am proud of who I am so don't lie or remain faceless.
I am very flexible about the type of guys I will contact.

There are just a few things that are important to me
1 Your looking ultimately for more than a one night stand. Fun is fine but without friendship means very little.

2 You are within a reasonable distance from me here in the UK, so that a friendship, or more can grow.

3 Your NOT looking for a sugar daddy, IE looking for financial reward.

Our first meeting is in a public place. This is common sense.

So far being contacted by a number of guys looking to relocate from out side the uk.

4 A number of guys that clearly are offering me a service for money!

5 Guys that give one excuse after another why they are unable to meet in a public place, or won't supply a pic or a phone number before a meet. I may have a disability but I'm not stupid!!

Guys should take the time to read a profile. Mine tells people what I am looking for!!

I feel better for saying that! Have a nice day peaps

Hi, Fruitbat!

My first thought is maybe there isn't as big a community of gay people on here to give you the selection of worthy candidates you're looking for. I don't know how true that is though, I'm just going off who I've seen in the forums, and there really doesn't seem to be many gay men in there (or at least few who are that upfront about it).

I'm sure you have already clocked it, but do be very aware that there are lots of scammer-types around!

In terms of your profile, you're very honest about what you want and what you're looking for. If I'm nit-picking, some editing of the text wouldn't go amiss as it reads a little jumbled in parts. A couple more photos may also help.

I wish you the best of luck!