hey everyone. I am not usually the type to go on websites and look for a relationship but my sister thought it would be a good experience for me. But I mean really come on what is up with random guys wanting to see me naked or telling me they're horny? dude I don't care! I am not a prude or anything but it's just really annoying when guys do that. Are there any good guys left? I could really use one. My heart is broken and I have no hope for repairing it.

That seems to happen just about everywhere from what I've found for myself. I'm not one to try these venues of meeting people, but I just don't get out a lot since to me it's
(1) too expensive to go out on my own
(2) not really fun sitting and watching others have fun
(3) crowds of people in general make me a bit uneasy since I'm an introvert

It seems like whenever you have a digital screen filter instead of being able to talk with someone face-to-face (even then there's occasions where you'll still run into the same crass manners) the ratio to intellectual conversation drops to almost 0% and turn into 100% one-liners. I think some boys didn't get the memo that if a pick-up line didn't work at a bar, it's not likely to work on-line here with a dating site/forum/chat.

I've found that here so far the best way to have a conversation is to try and keep up with the forums. In the meantime just weed through the random messages you get and delete the crude ones. Or if they're really offensive report them.

I'm sure you'll find some nice people here on the forums.

That's why I always wait for them to do it first.

There are a ton of pigs everywhere, and most of the time, the ones who do that stuff online are too cowardly to do it in the "real world" because they know they'll get ***** slapped.

So they hide behind a computer screen and think acting obnoxious is cool and "a great way to get chicks." Sad, but it happens. Just ignore them, if you can. Report the really disgusting ones.

Try posting in the forums, you might find one or two decent guys that are available to you.

Good luck

I am sorry to hear that sweetheart all guys are not like that though I don't really care to see you naked in till we are together lol I don't know why God would tell you they wanted everyone know man I always horny but my name is Chuck if you would like to get to know me I definitely would like to get to know you

....well um its kinda messed up that some women mistake me for older men 1st looki either look young like 16 or i look about 25:/ and mind my horrid commaplacment here, but even though were are not as intelectual you might think some women prefer pick ups(id rather have one with wits) thiis being addressed to all ive read but who knows i might be spouting stuffs out my face...im new here btw so like hai :D