Hello, i am finding myself in a place where i am now asking where do i go from here.
Why are relationships so complicated and that without honesty it is doomed from the start. I dont mean cheating or such likes, i mean just the normal day to day things that bother people and dont get dealt with. Which in turn over time becomes an obstacle that can not be overcome.. WHY!

Anyway.... i am hoping to meet someone who can fill an emptiness in my life. Nothing serious for now but i am open to let things progress if we connect. Chemistry is very important too.

sorry if i came across a bit serious, im not always like this, i am more often an upbeat person and likes to see the funny side and can be very witty.

However,,, there are days i do ask "what's the meaning of life" and try to re-assess where i am in the grand scheme of things

because they are wounded…..we all have favorite feelings and emotions about ourselves and others so we recycle them in games that consist of victim,persecutor, and rescuer…the second thing is we are trying to reinforce beliefs that were formed in childhood when we were to young to fully understand……thats it.!!………good luck…..i hope you find the the love you want…..

Hi Sparkyae5.
Thanks for your reply.
When you say "they" I take it you mean women?
I understand what your saying but life teaches us to compromise whether at work or socially so why not in a relationship.
I know everyone is different and men can be like this too.
If people are honest in the beginning it may prevent a lot of heartache.