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Edited by
Johnny3611
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Sun 11/03/13 02:10 PM
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Am I decent looking? And what is wrong with me, and how can I fix it?
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What is wrong with you?
![]() I don't know you so I don't know that anything is wrong with you... As for your appearance, you look fine, but you need to remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You need to fill out your profile and add more pics if you're looking to attract women. Good luck. |
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Ty, I don't knowi have social anxiety and I can't make much friends and never had a girlfriend before.:/ so I'm not sure why anyone likes me
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Ah well, in that case, try to relax and just be yourself. I have social anxiety, too, so I know how you feel. The nice thing about the internet is, you can talk to people without feeling as if they're looking at you and judging you.
People like people for different reasons, personally I love weird people, but I'm weird, so go figure.. |
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You might try putting up a picture of yourself smiling. Smiles are always nice to see. You are attractive and I believe you could find some nice friends here. Try putting more information on your profile to let other people know what your interests are, what type of people you would feel most comfortable hanging out with and state, to start out with, that you are looking for friends who would like to chat. I believe you will start seeing a difference in the social anxiety you are experiencing. Best of luck to you and try to have fun. Play some of the games on the forums and you'll find a lot of people will get to know a lot more about you.
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I think you look fine. Nice hair and features. Normal clothes. You have a lite beard but that is typical for your age. You loose a little eye contact looking at the computer but that is pretty common and can be corrected with practice. A smile would actually make you have and above average appearance. Rotate your second photo. Add photos of you doing everyday things and especially interests.
Your text is going to have to be filled in. Hard to work in a void. At 18 I am going to guess like my sons were at your age finishing up school and moving on into employment and hopefully college. I would encourage you to do that. Every school will have a Special Student Services office that will be a big help in contending with social anxiety as far as keeping notes, getting around campus, and picking classes where you can have the ost success. Can't stress how much more pleasant a community college will be than high school is/was even if you only go part time. Even if it isn't in your immediate life it would be a good goal to share with other people your age. You don't mention a job so I would talk to your local Independent Living Center for help that way and many others. They have great peer coaches for ideas about socialization and dating. Will be able to talk to you about networking on line. Think it will be a great experience in you building a feeling of success; taking charge of your life. Joining here is a great move in that direction. Lot of nice people that if you are selective will bring good things to life. You read a few profiles you will find out some common interests. I am so much older than you but I think the usual stuff will still apply. In writing a profile be yourself and say what you like but still keep in mind you are trying to be friends with women so it needs to be some stuff that is interactive. Some specifics are better than generic terms. You have a favorite fast food, dance, band, sport, collectible, community group; lots have groups or chapters for young adults. Jaycees is a particular favorite of mine for younger adults. Think you listed a faith, do you go to any of their activities? I would say it is less about doing anything wrong and more about just keep going in a positive direction. Hope this gives you a few ideas. Good luck. |
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Ty I shaved 2 days ago sorry about that
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