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Topic: Are you unhappy?
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Sun 11/03/13 11:55 AM

If you are unhappy, have you ever asked yourself why? Why are you unhappy?

Is it your situation? If so, have you ever asked yourself what decisions have you been making that has brought you to this situation?

Are you down on yourself? If so, what kinds of things do you think and/or say to yourself that contributes to it?


oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 11/03/13 11:59 AM
Generally speaking. no. I'm not unhappy except for one area of my life and I did it to myself. But I'm fixing it, you can't let things stagnate.

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Sun 11/03/13 12:15 PM
I have my ups and downs, but I'm not miserable. And I agree with Hippie, most of the things that cause me concern are my own fault, and I'm working on rectifying what I can and saying **** it to the things I can't change.

Interesting post.flowerforyou

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 11/03/13 12:50 PM
Today, I can honestly say, "No I am not unhappy"! Have I been unhappy in the past, yes. Did someone else change that for me? No. It was a matter of simply changing perspective of how I, myself, look and react to people and situations around me. Changing perspective does indeed change outcomes. :wink: flowerforyou

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Sun 11/03/13 01:19 PM
lol
I go back and forth
Maybe i'm a bit Bi-polar ?

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jacktrades's photo
Sun 11/03/13 02:23 PM
I am not unhappy at all. I have reached a point in my life where I enjoy the small things and love the things I have, not what I don't have. I have been unhappy in the past but like the others my wounds have been self afflicted but I learned you can not change the past so look towards the future. Life is good and God bless you all!!!

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 11/03/13 02:44 PM
Actually I think I am happier than I have been in a long time. Life is good for me. My family is in good condition, bills are paid, and don't have any big mountains to climb in life.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/03/13 03:07 PM
I've had so many "highs" that it's hard to keep it in perspective.

Although I honor my (and everyone's) "lows", I'd be a self-indulgent azz to consider my lot in life bad.

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 11/03/13 03:09 PM
Me unhappy? No.

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Sun 11/03/13 03:34 PM
Its so good to see so many happy people here on mingle!

:banana: :banana: Let's dance!

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/03/13 03:46 PM
LMAO!!!! :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Sun 11/03/13 03:48 PM
Not at all. Don't get me wrong, i feel unhappy if my agoraphobia start's putting panic in my head, but other than that, I'm quite satisfied. I learned how to deal with everything in a positive way.

dcastelmissy's photo
Sun 11/03/13 03:49 PM
Gee, how will you be able to sit down Beachfarmer?? rofl rofl rofl

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/03/13 03:58 PM
guess moving the bananas might be in order....oO

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:03 PM
Normally I am happy. But right this minute I have a terrible headache and feel woozy. So, right now, I am not happy.

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Sun 11/03/13 04:05 PM
Joins in the banana dance....

:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

And here's hoping Ruth feels better soon.flowerforyou

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Sun 11/03/13 04:07 PM
Edited by KiK2me on Sun 11/03/13 04:09 PM


One dancing banana

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:banana:

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Sun 11/03/13 04:07 PM
The sound of one banana dancing...

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Sun 11/03/13 04:10 PM
not UNhappy....some recent changes (as usual, sheesh) but so far so good :)flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 11/03/13 04:11 PM
It IS appeeling.

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