Hey I am new to the site about a week now. And I have to say the 69 behind your nic does not turn me on....it just makes me curious. Then when you want to come over to my house and mention cuddling and watching movies. I am suspicious that you are involved or married and just stepping out on your mate. I been on the receiving end of a spouse messing around on me and boy did that hurt, so no I don't want to be the other woman.
I will cuddle with the man who respects me enough to meet me in a public place, treat me like he wants to get to know me, is interested in what I think, cares enough about me to tell me what he thinks and wants to get to know me. After several dates when we both feel that spark then the physical will evolve/ Call me old fashioned but that is just who I am. I think sexy is a guy who can get down on the grass and wrestle with the dog. Someone who will hold my hand and look deep into my eyes. And yes I know that he is out there somewhere and I am willing to wait for the right one. Dating and relating...please be gentle...and write from the heart all who answer/

Sometimes when men and women talk it seems like sometimes the same words belong to two different languages. Be interesting to put words out there and then have guys and gals define them. I am pretty sure cuddleing means two very different things.

Good for you, mumma didn't raise no fool, good call.
"I like a woman with a sloooow haaand
I like a woman with an eeeeasy touch
when it comes to love..I want a slooow hand"
I think that was the pointer brothers

I do like a low hand but slow and flat.
low flat n slow
that's the way 'you'll' get me to go
like that bloke from Kent
His member was so increasingly bent
and to save in the trouble
he put it in double
and in stead of kumming
he went.
Welcome to mingle good luck
I'm sure you will have no problem. ..
you just got to stay away from the man ..lol

Yes it does, cuddling to me is sitting close holding hands maybe an arm around my shoulders to this other guy it was him spooning me and rubbing my tummy among other things. To me that would be called heavy petting lol, I am real old-fashioned I guess. And this was just talking about it in here lol. We have not even met!

Yeah; I would think cuddling is what you mentioned.

I agree with you! What guy is talking about is much more than cuddling!!

If a spoon,then no petting...that's cuddling!!

Ofcourse am a bit old fashioned too!!
I do prefer getting to know a man,in public,day time,night time-but all in public...then walk from there-not marathoning from 1st meet to bedroom, eeeeh

Ha ha ha haaaaa

Yep talking does not constitute a first date, it is talking. So all you guys out there get with the program. How do you look at a few pictures and ultimately come to the conclusion that you want to bed someone... I find that not only shallow but predator like in essence. Meet me and find out who I am then we will decide how or where the possibilities may lead.

YAY for you, Rita! I think you put it perfectly. Whatever happened to actual dating? I think too many guys have the idea that if we are over 30, we are desperate to get laid and latch onto a guy, no matter what his morals are. I've wated a lot of time on guys - not men - who didn't deserve it. No more!

cuddling means i'm seeing boobs at some point

I like this.