Its been 7years since me and my first love parted ways but last 2weeks he reach out through fbook. We are now communicating everyday. i want to end it up because he has already a girlfriend but he tells me that he is still inlove me. I dont want to communicate with him cause i might fall deeply again for him. I never love again after him.

And this is exactly why I don't want a Facebook, or Myspace account. Old lovers always end up finding you, and then they try to worm their way back in. He has a new woman, yet tells you he still loves you. He sounds unstable. If he wanted you, he wouldn't even be with the other woman. I think it will end up as a triangle of love if you're not careful. Do you want to be his bit on the side? Remember, never feed a troll ;) Or should I say pig?

Sounds to me that he wants the best of both worlds? If he was serious about getting back with you, he should've proved it and done the decent thing and finished with that other woman, but he hasn't. You went out together once, yes, but people change and thinking that you can get the times back that you had together is just an illusion. My advice would be to go forward with your life, not back. Best of luck, ok?

okay:) thank you :)

And this is exactly why I don't want a Facebook, or Myspace account. Old lovers always end up finding you, and then they try to worm their way back in. He has a new woman, yet tells you he still loves you. He sounds unstable. If he wanted you, he wouldn't even be with the other woman. I think it will end up as a triangle of love if you're not careful. Do you want to be his bit on the side? Remember, never feed a troll ;) Or should I say pig?


i understand :)

Sounds like and excellent reason to use whatever technology you can to block this person from access to you. It is pretty easy to exclude him from your computer and phone. I would make it clear to friends and family that you want no part of him ignoring or blocking any attempts he might make to contact you.

I have never seen the wisdom in discussing your love life on public media and would encourage you to refrain from doing so. Especially when it includes associating you with what sounds like such a looser that at least at one point had the good sense to extract yourself from.

Admitting that you are having contact with him when he is involved with someone else doesn't really demonstrate much self respect and definitely gives her the right to hold you both accountable in whatever legal recourse she might have. You can pretty much count on getting trashed on her media which is not going to do your reputation any good.