Topic: why so many" not seen for more than a month"
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Fri 10/25/13 08:43 PM
I JUST WENT THROUGH AN ADVANCED SEARCH OF 198 PEOPLE AND VIRTUALLY ALL WERE "NOT SEEN FOR MORE THAN A MONTH"

oldsage's photo
Sat 10/26/13 05:11 AM
Everyone makes their own choices. Site is here, people come & go as they chose.

navygirl's photo
Sat 10/26/13 09:46 PM
I am guilty of this myself but some of us have very busy lives and really don't have time to come on here. Doesn't hurt to email them and see what happens.

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Tue 11/05/13 11:20 PM

I am guilty of this myself but some of us have very busy lives and really don't have time to come on here. Doesn't hurt to email them and see what happens.


I agree. Lives take precedence over everything going on here. Some people are just too busy. I know because I am one of them. See what happens by sending emails of interest. Nothing gained, nothing lost either.

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Wed 11/06/13 06:40 AM
Could it be possible that the prevalence of "not seen for over a month" indicates that profiles never "go away" even after months or years of inactivity?

In practical terms, a search that brings up many results may look impressive, but responding to someone who has not been seen for over a month seems like a waste of time.